golcarlilly

Hiya neighbour!! all the staff at both sites have been so nice with me, it really makes a difference when you feel they care doesn't it? I felt better staying in for the time I did, as you say it is comforting to have medical staff around and they keep checking on you to make sure you are ok, I had a private room with it's own bathroom so could just do what I wanted really, there is a tv you can watch if you like too. Is someone going with you? It is very upsetting I found and was glad OH was with me. If I were you I would take some painkillers before you go so they can kick in as the pains (well mine anyway) are like labour and I wish I had taken some prior to going in. Be prepared for a lot of blood and clots too, no-one really explained to me how much there would be and it came as a big shock.
(sorry if I have scared you, it really is horrible but was my preferred option as I really did not want surgery and it has worked for me despite having taken a long time!)

NickyT75

Just wanted to let you know im thinking of you at this horrible time hun, i hope things go as smoothly as possible & you are able to move forward xx

WW1

OH is going with me and I'm really glad he is. Although I think I'm doing okay at the moment, seeing the blood etc. will set me back a bit I reckon. I'm kind of expecting lots of blood (figuring that everything in there is going to come out in a pretty quick time) but it's one thing imagining it and quite another seeing it for real.

I appreciate your honesty with it all - it really helps to know the truth of what is going to happen. I'd much prefer to know what to expect.

The painkiller idea is a very good one - I think I'll do that!

golcarlilly

How are you feeling today, what time do you have to go in tomorrow?

Sambatiki

Hi

Good luck for tomorrow hope it goes as well as it can do.

BIG

Take care

Kerry xxx

maccy

Good luck hun, thinking of you, let us know how you get on. xxxx

WW1

Feeling a bit down today and a little bit crampy but much less than I expected. Had some bleeding but less than I expected to - I imagine the full joy awaits tomorrow!

The nurses told me to be there between 9 and 10. I assume I'll be there all day (6 hrs or so?). I'm going to stay rather than take the pessaries home with me (it's a long way back to Halifax as you know!)

Glad the OH has the day off tomorrow.

Ironically, my best friend has her first scan tomorrow (following 2 m/cs) to check all is well. It's a strange, strange world...

Happy

I hope all goes as well as it can do tomorrow. I didn't have that much blood when I m/c ( i was 7 weeks) just really painful stomach cramps. No one told me what to expect and I think it was the blood which was a real shock for me.

Take care xxx

tillymum

Good luck for tomorrow. Thinking of you.

golcarlilly

Hi

Thinking of you and hoping you are ok