Miscarriage & Loss Support

golcarlilly · May 17th, 2008, 19:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Net

Golcarlilly
No, unfortunately I don't have any children. I didn't meet my OH until I was in my late 20's and he was still at uni so the time wasn't right to settle down. I got pregnant within 6 months of us being married, which resulted in my first miscarrage. The i have been throught 1 cycle of IVF at the beginning of this month-which was unsucessful. And now a natural pregnancy, that again ended in miscarriage. I am going to have further tests now-what about you, are they investigating any further?

No, I think until you have had three m/c they don't offer any investigations. How long have you been married? I am on my second, DD is from my first marriage. My hubby is only 30 (toyboy LOL) and doesnt have any kids, this would have been his first. How long were you trying before opting for IVF?

Net · May 17th, 2008, 19:23 PM

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Originally Posted by golcarlilly

No, I think until you have had three m/c they don't offer any investigations. How long have you been married? I am on my second, DD is from my first marriage. My hubby is only 30 (toyboy LOL) and doesnt have any kids, this would have been his first. How long were you trying before opting for IVF?

We have been married nearly 4 years and my DH is a toyboy too (34) LOL. We had the first MC in May 2004 and started the first IVF january this year (first appointment May last year) as we just hadn't got pg again. This mc was from a natural pg-which was just incredable as I have knackered tubes and was told I would be unlikely to get pg naturally! Any MC is devastating-we just feel really hard done by at the moment.

Ann-Marie · May 18th, 2008, 14:17 PM

I had a 'missed abortion' between my 2 boys. I had no symptoms whatsoever, just that I didn't feel pregnant. when i told my mw this at my 12 weeks appointment, she sent me for a scan, and baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks. They gave me the option of waiting, or a d&c. I didn't want to wait, as I'd already been carrying bubs for 3 weeks without mc-ing, so I went for the d&c... it was the best option for me, as it gave me a sense of closure.

I hope you're feeling ok now

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