Im so sorry to hear what your going through, and i can relate. i found out my baby died 2 weeks prior on my 10 week scan.. its very hard
I opted for a d&c as i was told by friends who did it naturally they regretted it, and im very glad i did. But everybody's different, you have to do what's right for you!
I promise you you will get through this, but in the meantime do what ever feels right for you, take as much time off as you want and dont feel anything you do is silly, weird or un-natural. Its what you need to do right now that is important.
I really feel for you chicken, take care


