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Old May 4th, 2008, 13:24 PM   #31
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Old May 4th, 2008, 13:48 PM   #32
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I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!
Hi Maccy, I know exactly how you feel as I choose natural misccarraige too on Friday when given the options 2 mins after finding there was no heartbeat, I felt it was the easiest option then, now i'm terrified too, though I'm going to see if I can change my mind and go for a D&C. I just want it all to be over.
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Old May 4th, 2008, 16:45 PM   #33
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Old May 4th, 2008, 20:10 PM   #35
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So sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have lots of support around you and of cource we are all here for you on here
My scan didn't show good or bad news yet....still bleeding lightly tho and all my pregnancy symptoms have now gone so I feel I may be following in your path. Will find out more on Tuesday hopefully.
Wishing you the kindest possible 1 - 2 weeks to come. Thinking of you.
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Old May 4th, 2008, 20:22 PM   #36
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sorry to hear about what youve been through,i cant possibly feel the emotions your going through, but all the best for the future
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Old May 4th, 2008, 20:53 PM   #37
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hey hun,
havent been online for a few days so thats why i havent posted on here sooner..
Ive had a erpc and a natural miscarriage, i got to be honest and say for me personally i prefered the eprc as it was a little less traumatic as u are being handled by people who know what they are doing, with a natural miscarriage ur kind of on ur own and it is distressing although u grieve as its happening if u get me. I saw babys sac and i have since buried it which means ill always have a special place to go which i didnt before. both times were very sad and i felt very low both times so there really is no easy option. All i will say is dont be too afraid - your body knows what to do and it will do it, i wasnt in a lot of pain but it does hurt so get a hot water bottle ready and naturally expect to bleed for longer.. I bled on and off for three weeks.
Im really sorry ur at this crossroads but u will feel stronger in time and u will always have a angel watching over u. be brave hun xx
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No sign of anything yet, although 3 days ago I was still feeling sick and had sore boobs they have now def disappeared, the waiting is hard, but I am doing what feels right for me at the moment. Over the last 3 weeks I have been in hospital, had internals, scans, bloods taken, drips, been poked and proded and for now am happy to leave things take their own course for a bit, I have a scheduled apt for 3 weeks time so if nothing happens by then I'll re-think. Thanks for all the support ladies. Your all diamonds, to go through what you have been through and still find the strength to offer support to me. xxxxxxx
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