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Old May 2nd, 2008, 20:13 PM   #21
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So sorry hun been wondering all day how you got on hope you are coping x
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Old May 2nd, 2008, 21:05 PM   #22
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so sorry

I just logged on to see how it went.

Anytime u want to tell u know where i am. R stories are so similar. All i can say is i flt better after d & C but then the bleeding when on longer than expected so i needed further tablets which brought it all back. I can honesty say now i feel ok tho still feel jealous the odd time of other people. I know i doesnt look like it now but u will improve over as time goes by.

Please rest and i will lo on tomorrow to see how u are.
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Old May 2nd, 2008, 21:22 PM   #23
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So sorry for your loss, if there's any way I can help don't hesitate to ask.
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Old May 2nd, 2008, 21:25 PM   #24
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So sorry sweetie, i know what you mean, we build ourselves up that things are ok, so so sorry, we are all here and thinking of u x x x
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Old May 3rd, 2008, 07:50 AM   #25
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I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!
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I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!
Awww... I'm so sorry for your loss! I find myself crying at night and just wanting to scream at the top of my lungs "I WANT MY BABY BACK!!!!!!". just remember that everything you are feeling is normal. Don't try to fight the tears.
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Old May 3rd, 2008, 10:01 AM   #27
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aww im so sorry for you hun,i chose the natural option as well so i know what your going through,im here if you need to chat,sending you loadsa hugs xxx
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So very sorry for your loss xXx
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Maccy, I had medical management after a missed miscarriage last year. I was 10 weeks and the baby had stopped growing at 8wks. I actually found it helped me, as horrendous as it sounds, to sort of go through a mini labour with the medical management, as it helped me accept that things were really over and I didn't have the fear that the whole thing was a big mistake. The pain was very mild in my case. It was all very sad and difficult, but I was not frightened. I hope it will be gentle for you.
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Hi try not to worry, you have chosen the option which sounds best for you,which is all any of us can do, armed with the knowledge I have of medical miscarriage now I wish I had chosen a d&c as i feel i would maybe have had less after effects (still bleeding and cramps) but none of us can say what it will be like as everyone is different, try and just rest as much as you can hun and we are all here for you whenever you need a shoulder
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