Since i found out i was pregnant all i can think about is the baby i lost 2years ago. it upsets me as i never really got used to the fact i was pregnant before he/she was taken from me. what my mum told me was that everything happen for a reason, and that theory helped me grieve and get through that sad time.
its not wrong to still be greiving for the one you lost but you do have a little baby girl that deserves all your love and affection. try talking to someone close who knows what you have been through, or has been through something similar, just getting things off your chest can help alot.
My thoughts and feelings are with you now, just remember you have your whole life with this little bundle of joy, enjoy it

xxx

It's always easier to blame somebody, ANYBODY, when you lose someone you care about. But you have to remember that it's horrible but true - sometimes babies DO just die. And there is NOTHING you can do about it. Don't blame yourself - you will never be able to move on. You just have to accept the fact that you, and everybody else around you, was powerless in this situation.

Aww hunny, it must be terrible for you, as the other girlies said its a good thing that you are grieving after all ots the loss of someone you care about. I heard once (and I know another member mentioned this so I don't want to step on their toes) that when you lose a baby its soul waits and becomes your next baby. This may be of some comfort to you it may not, i kinda like that idea. You little girl is blessed to have a mummy that is so caring and loving, I hope you feel better soon hun x x x