When i miscarried last year i spent 2 days and nights on the toilet just letting it all come out (sorry tmi!!). The pains were horrendous and i could barely walk downstairs to get my painkillers. I bled for approx 2 weeks in total. Believe me it does get easier. Are you due to go back for a scan to see if its all come away?
Hope things get better soon
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you ladys are wonderfull
the pain has completly gone now, went toilet about half hour ago and soon as i sat down i turned the water red but i think thats normal least i hope so, i have dh with me
im guessing the bleeding dosnt stop right away ?
love donna
So glad your pain has gone, and to get a scan tomorrow is brilliant! I really wish i could go for another to see if there is anything left but I have to just wait it out for 3 weeks!
Glad your hubby is with you, it is bad enough to go through but to be on your own must be very scary, midwife told me bleeding can carry on for a couple of weeks even when everything is out so am sure you are ok.
Take it easy and rest lots now
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thankyou hun
theres an early preg unit a mile from were i live and i dont even need an appointment just to go whenever i need to, i must admit got really lucky with that
love
donna
Reading you message reminds me of my m/c 5 weeks ago. What you have gone through and going though now is exactly what I went through. If you look at prev threads you will see my story. I bled for one week after passing my baby, fortunately for me I did not have too much pain in passing, however, lots and lots and lots of blood.
We tried as soon as the bleeding stopped as doing this is helping me cope (not for some people though). At first was very positive as I was not grieving or so I thought, for a baby. It was for all the preparation and excitement that I missed. Since then I actually think about the baby all the time.
However, it does get better, for me I just put my head into work and focused on creating another life! I have not had my period yet but I hear that this could take upto 6 weeks! I have taken numerous tests but all have come back negative....however you never know and I just keep wishing upon my lucky stars as they say.
Chin up babe........keep positive and I wish you all the best. If you ever need to chat about anything just PM me.
Keep me posted!
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