It doesn't matter now.
It was confirmed this evening that I have lost my baby.

I'm sorry I can't say for sure of course, but it does sound like a miscarriage.... lots of thoughts and prayers that the scan says differently.

Thank you

The first post seems to not be here so dont know if you are but really really hope its not hun good luck xx

i came in to reply but its gone. i hope it isnt a miscarriage for you xx

I am one of those people that read it and didn't reply. I had to have a "medical" miscarriage 2 weeks ago, so I wouldn't be able to answer you if that's what happening to you since it's "natural" (and mine never even started that way)....and I'm sure other people here might not be able to answer your question as well because they had a MMC.

I think your out of order to be honest! Not everyone has the time to reply! Most of the girls that have miscarried don't like to talk about it because of bad memories! And because it hurts too much. How about having a bit of respect for some of the girls in here!
I hope you aren't miscarrying. But if you do, you'll understand why you dont get many replys in here.

I completely understand that no one can say medically if I am miscarrying or not, I posted on this forum because I needed positive and negative experiences to give me either some kind of hope, or help me come to terms with my possibly miscarriage.

I posted in here because I didn't want to put a 'downer' on the atmosphere in Tri 1, with all the ladies enjoying their pregnancy. The last thing they need is to be upset by something like this.

What upset me the most this morning was that 33 people took the time to read my post, but yet only 1 person replied. It doesn't take 2 minutes to say something like "I'm sorry, I can't offer any advice, but I hope everything is ok" or even post a hug.

I haven't been a member on here for that long, but I have never read a thread and not replied. I think that is rude. People post on here for help, and if you read their thread, the least you can do is reply.

Charlotteee; did you see my original post? I started off by saying that I was extremely sorry for the losses everyone has experienced, and that I hoped no one minded me asking for a bit of advice. Not that that makes a difference, I thought it would be easier doing that than reading and replying to every single post in this section. I completely understand how hard it is for women to talk about their experience, and wasn’t expecting anyone to give me a detailed response of what they have been through, all I wanted was a bit of hope, or help coming to terms with things.

After all, that was all I was asking for; advice, or even a hug.

I’m sorry if I upset anyone, it was the last thing I wanted to do. I didn’t want to leave my information on here for too long, because of the upset it can cause for women on this forum, and the upset it is causing myself.

I’d appreciate if no one replied to this now so it was find its way onto the next page and disappear. Thanks.

Yes i appreciate you are asking for adive, but the majority of people that read these threads, are guests. They search on google for miscarriage symptoms and it brings them here or people who come in here and dont want to post, they are merely looking for help and are reading posts to know if they are miscarrying. Or its just people browsing the forum.
I havent seen your post no, because you deleted it. If you had been patient i would have replied to you this morning. Most of the girls dont get on until this time today anyway.

Sorry to hear you are having a hard time, I didn't see your full post.

Charlottee has a good point. I was one of those guests who observed first before registering. I found reading the posts and responses helpful. I looked at a ton. It took me a day or so to emotionally be ready to register and post. Given your post title I am sure many guests were who were wondering the same thing viewed your post. Also there were posts I would keep going back to to see new responses. Perhaps some of the "33" were returning guests.

Either way. I am sorry you are upset. I truly hope you are not miscarrying. Best wishes.