Hi,

I'm currently in the process of miscarrying my twins. It started on Friday, with just light bleeding, there were both still there on the ultra sound (also the first we knew about having twins). I started heavy bleeding and lost two large clots on Saturday night. The scan in Sunday morning confirmed there was only one sac left, and it was irregular and low, so would lose my 2nd twin too. I was offered the D&C, tablet or continue to let it happen naturally as it had already started. I've decided to do it naturally, and passed another very large clot yesterday which looked like a sac, and it was a lot larger than i thought it would be.

Feeling very lost, we both did alot of crying on Saturday (we knew what was happening but had hope for the 2nd twin), and then Sunday. But i'm not sure when i can face other people. I am a teacher and i'm not sure i can face teaching 14+ year olds next week without breaking down (not good for a teacher). little things are still setting me off (reminders that i am now in week 12 in emails, TV programmes with pregnant ladies in, that i have tickets for the baby show on Friday). We have decided to plant two plants in the garden to remember our babies. Am trying to think positive but feel a huge emptiness inside of me.

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

thats so sad! take time off work, just go and see your doc, take as much time as you need... thinking of you xx

Thats really awful. Thinking of you.

So sorry, take care xxx

I'm so sorry hun *hug*

I am really sorry for your loss. I had a missed miscarriage in december 2007. Its a sad and awful time to go through!!!
It never ever goes away just gets easier to deal with.
Have you got another scan booked to double check x

Thanks for all your kind words. I have my final scan in two weeks, wanted it sooner really, so may re-arrange for later next week

(((hugs))) so sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to you xxx

I'm so sorry for your loss huni, take time off work hun otherwise things might catch up with you at a later date, you need time to get over this shock. I do have my fingers crossed for your next scan hun, I have you in my prayers xx