Miscarrying twins - Page 2

hmu04146 · Feb 16th, 2010, 10:38 AM

hey there's nothing i can say to make you feel better but if you ever need a rant or cry we're here x

aviolet · Feb 16th, 2010, 10:50 AM

Blondie007 · Feb 16th, 2010, 16:19 PM

I have just had a miscarriage, it happened on Sunday after I was told that my baby had stopped growing at my scan a week ago Friday. It was the most horrific thing I have gone through. I thought I was over the worst of it, yet today the pains came back even worse than Sunday. I ended up in A&E. They gave me a scan ( I asked for the screen to be switched off as I couldn't deal with seeing that again). It showed that I had passed everything. As strange as it sounds and even though I am devastated by what has happened, I actually felt relieved to hear that the scan showed clear. That may sound really weird but I just want to start to recover from this and only feel that I can do that now. I think you should try to get your scan done as soon as possible, as I feel 'better' emotionally now and feel I can now try to deal with the emotional side of what has happened without dealing with the physical side too. I am so, so sorry for your loss and I pray that you and your partner can get through this xxxxx

cutelou101 · Feb 16th, 2010, 16:36 PM

Blondie so sorry for your loss, sending you lots of love and

Thanks for your advice, i was thinking of ring EPAU tomorrow and telling them what happened, and ask for my scan earlier. I do think i need the closure, and i won't have that until i know it is all over. I never thought it would be this hard, but have found alot of support through these forums with people who understand what i'm going through

Beanbabe · Feb 16th, 2010, 16:58 PM

thinking of you and your oh. Look after yourself. Do not go back to work till you feel ready. You need time to deal with this. Its a huge loss and you should not feel rushed or pressurised to return to work. Take your time and only do what you are comfortable with.

calm · Feb 16th, 2010, 18:26 PM

I am so sorry, I just cried reading you, its so very sad

so sorry for your loss

Gypsy_Punk · Feb 17th, 2010, 11:32 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss hun

xx

cutelou101 · Feb 17th, 2010, 13:22 PM

Thanks for everyones support. Felt better writing it all down, and have found lots of support being part of this forum. I have managed to make my final scan earlier, and am going to see the doctor tomorrow to see if he will sign me off for a week or so. feeling little better today, only a small cry this morning when i told my friend what had happened (she had been away), ventured out into the real world for lunch and shopping with OH. Was doing ok until saw twin pram in nandos. But OH choose and bought me a new necklace which i'll wear to remind me of my angels. Still thinking of going to the baby show Friday with my close friend, may back out on the day but want to try and look forward, as want to try again, but know i will be worring the whole 1st trimester the next time, although i'll try not to.

Thanks again to all of you for your kind words xxx

EpdTTC · Feb 17th, 2010, 13:32 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I just miscarried this weekend. I teach college. I took Monday off, I don't have classes on Tuesday, and I have just returned today. I have a meeting in 30 minutes, then another meeting, and then I teach a class. It took everything in me to get out of bed today. I dread facing my students. I feel like I am in slow motion. Like I am in a movie-watching myself but not feeling much but sadness. My heart breaks for you. It was early in my pregnancy but based on my first hcg number (776) at 8 dpo and the fact that I was on clomid and had 3-4 eggs, they were pretty sure I was carrying multiples. There are no words to explain it. The strangest combination of numbness and pain at the same time. Just know you are not alone. I know that for me, despite having great support, I feel very lonely right now. Hugs.

cutelou101 · Feb 17th, 2010, 13:45 PM

Sorry for your loss EpdTCC. I understand how your feeling right now. you are very brave getting up and going in to teach, i could not do it. its a strange feeling, i never imagined it would feel like this. xxx hugs xxx

Feb 16th, 2010, 10:38 AM	#11
hmu04146 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Greenock Posts: 966	hey there's nothing i can say to make you feel better but if you ever need a rant or cry we're here x

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Feb 16th, 2010, 10:50 AM	#12
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Feb 16th, 2010, 16:19 PM	#13
Blondie007 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Kent Posts: 772	I have just had a miscarriage, it happened on Sunday after I was told that my baby had stopped growing at my scan a week ago Friday. It was the most horrific thing I have gone through. I thought I was over the worst of it, yet today the pains came back even worse than Sunday. I ended up in A&E. They gave me a scan ( I asked for the screen to be switched off as I couldn't deal with seeing that again). It showed that I had passed everything. As strange as it sounds and even though I am devastated by what has happened, I actually felt relieved to hear that the scan showed clear. That may sound really weird but I just want to start to recover from this and only feel that I can do that now. I think you should try to get your scan done as soon as possible, as I feel 'better' emotionally now and feel I can now try to deal with the emotional side of what has happened without dealing with the physical side too. I am so, so sorry for your loss and I pray that you and your partner can get through this xxxxx

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Feb 16th, 2010, 16:36 PM	#14
cutelou101 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: South East UK Posts: 948	Blondie so sorry for your loss, sending you lots of love and Thanks for your advice, i was thinking of ring EPAU tomorrow and telling them what happened, and ask for my scan earlier. I do think i need the closure, and i won't have that until i know it is all over. I never thought it would be this hard, but have found alot of support through these forums with people who understand what i'm going through

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Feb 16th, 2010, 16:58 PM	#15
Beanbabe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 642	thinking of you and your oh. Look after yourself. Do not go back to work till you feel ready. You need time to deal with this. Its a huge loss and you should not feel rushed or pressurised to return to work. Take your time and only do what you are comfortable with.

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Feb 16th, 2010, 18:26 PM	#16
calm Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 3,971	I am so sorry, I just cried reading you, its so very sad so sorry for your loss

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Feb 17th, 2010, 11:32 AM	#17
Gypsy_Punk AutoSignup (SAAB) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 1,762	Sorry to hear about your loss hun xx

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Feb 17th, 2010, 13:22 PM	#18
cutelou101 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: South East UK Posts: 948	Thanks for everyones support. Felt better writing it all down, and have found lots of support being part of this forum. I have managed to make my final scan earlier, and am going to see the doctor tomorrow to see if he will sign me off for a week or so. feeling little better today, only a small cry this morning when i told my friend what had happened (she had been away), ventured out into the real world for lunch and shopping with OH. Was doing ok until saw twin pram in nandos. But OH choose and bought me a new necklace which i'll wear to remind me of my angels. Still thinking of going to the baby show Friday with my close friend, may back out on the day but want to try and look forward, as want to try again, but know i will be worring the whole 1st trimester the next time, although i'll try not to. Thanks again to all of you for your kind words xxx

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Feb 17th, 2010, 13:32 PM	#19
EpdTTC Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ohio Posts: 674	I'm so sorry for your loss. I just miscarried this weekend. I teach college. I took Monday off, I don't have classes on Tuesday, and I have just returned today. I have a meeting in 30 minutes, then another meeting, and then I teach a class. It took everything in me to get out of bed today. I dread facing my students. I feel like I am in slow motion. Like I am in a movie-watching myself but not feeling much but sadness. My heart breaks for you. It was early in my pregnancy but based on my first hcg number (776) at 8 dpo and the fact that I was on clomid and had 3-4 eggs, they were pretty sure I was carrying multiples. There are no words to explain it. The strangest combination of numbness and pain at the same time. Just know you are not alone. I know that for me, despite having great support, I feel very lonely right now. Hugs.

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Feb 17th, 2010, 13:45 PM	#20
cutelou101 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: South East UK Posts: 948	Sorry for your loss EpdTCC. I understand how your feeling right now. you are very brave getting up and going in to teach, i could not do it. its a strange feeling, i never imagined it would feel like this. xxx hugs xxx

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