Sorry to hear of your loss

I was 7 weeks when i mc and i bleed for about 9-10 days and i didnt need a d&c ! My doctor told me if after 14 days i was still bleeding to go back to see him. I felt weak and drained for about another week or so after it all happened !

Hope that helps

Hi all, being as there was others wondering the same i just thought i would update this thread to say my bleeding finally stopped today after 7 days no more pads wee hee! cheered me up no end as its onwards and upwards now can get on with ttc again! thanks everyone for your help, ive been doing a lot of forum reading but not much posting lately so think I maybe nearly back to myself again now, these forums have been a great help in the dark moments but theres definitly light at the end of the tunnel, just focusing on trying to get that BFP again, Thanks again x x

same here hun. was sick of bleeding and now we can try and get back on to the pregnancy rollercoaster. xxx good luck!

I know this is a little late but i almost started bleeding right away and it lasted like a little over a week.. i hope good things come to you..

My pregnancy was quite far on and 14 days later.......... still bleeding

Can't wait till it stops so I can feel normal again.

Thats how I felt hun. Its like ur mind needs a rest from the constant physical stuff.
Been thinking about you a lot, I hope ur ok, one day at a time - the longest of journeys starts with a single step. I know its hard coming to terms with things but just wanted to know im thinking of you as im sure lots of us on here are. xx

Thanks hun that's really nice of you to say.

After I posted that this morning my bleeding has slowed right down which is good.

I'm getting through this slowly. I still haven't had a day where I haven't cried. I'm getting a necklace made with his name and date of birth engraved and I'll wear it forever. It's so horrible when there are so few memories of someone you loved so much.

I just hope we can go on from this and have a healthy baby who we can take home with us. The day we can do that will be the happiest day of my life.

of course you will and your next babba is gonna take so much of your pain away. Im not saying you will forget Beau but it will help to heal that void, and the next one will always have beautiful little angel watching over them, over all of you..
Life is so complex isnt it and sometimes there are just not the answers there for us no matter how hard we look or how much we need them..
He was just to special for this world hun and one day, a day a long time from now you will be together until then you have your two babies and a lovely husband and there will be another baby in your family, im just so so sorry that wasnt Beau.
I maybe going on a bit but there will be sunshine again babe just get through the showers
xxxx

That is so lovely hun. Thank you.

You're completely right. When it first happened I refused to go out and didn't even really want to be alive anymore. I even said to my husband that I was only here because I felt I had to, not because I wanted to.

I have come so far since then. I obviously still have a lot of down moments but I am looking forward to spending some time with the babies we have and starting to ttc again as soon as I've recovered from this. It's like a second chance for me to right the things that went so wrong for us and I'm going to keep going until we take our last baby home with us.

to us all

Definately babe..
I know you will have days that you just want to end the minute you wake up but they will become less and less although the love you have for Beau will remain as strong.
Im glad ur feeling a little stronger, your two little ones are very lucky to have you and you are lucky to have them, im sure they will be able to guide you through the dark days.
I think not only letting go of ur baby is heartbreaking but so is losing those hopes and dreams u were carrying with you, but you will have those again hun.
Im remembering you and yours in my prayers.