I onlu joined BabyandBump yesterday but you all seem so lovely so i thought i would share my story.
Me & Df have been TTC for nearly a year now we no luck for a take home baby. We already have Izabel 22 months but so badly want a brother/sister for her.
I fall pregnant within 3 months of trying & we were so excited, but i started to bleed went to the hosp, had a scan & was told it was all over. I was heartbroken, i didnt know what to do.
After the 1 m/c we started to try again straight away & to my shock i fall pregnant straight away. I was so scared it would happen again but the doc said to me that was unlikely but again a week later i started to bleed, went to the hosp and everything seemed to look ok. I had bloods done but a few days later i was told it looked like a m/c. Finally after 5 days of going back & fore i was told i had m/c. When she said those words i felt like i had been hit by a train.
We decided to take a break from ttc as it was becoming to much. I went back to work & slowly started to get myself back on track. We started trying again after my 22nd birthday, and we very pleased to fall pregnant again very quickly but that was short lived as i started bleeding again.
I couldnt believe i was being told i had m/c for the 3rd time, all i wanted was another child, just seems like something is saying its not your time yet.
I want to its not fair. Today has been really hard as i was 12 days late & i was getting my hopes up again, very foolish of me. There was no way i could be pregnant this month as we havent been trying but you know you always hold on to hope dont you? Well finally the got my today & that was it i lost it, i havent known what to do with myself today.
I am so sorry to hear about your m/c's - I miscarried 6 weeks ago and today has been a bad day for me too - sometimes feels like to whole world is against you!
I haven't had a period since the m/c and just keep hoping that I have fallen straight away again - but think that is just wishful thinking.
Take care of yurself and I am here if you need a chat.
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Hey hun,
well my LO is nearly two and a half..
I miscarried in Nov after falling pregnant on the first month of trying but at my scan my baby had no heartbeat and i had a EPRC..
I waited three months like the dr told me to and then fell pregnant again and I was having early scans, had one at 6 weeks 6 days that confirmed baby had a heartbeat, i was thrilled until i started spotting two weeks later and i miscarried naturally last saturday.
Im sure ur devestaed after a third. Im lost having had two, but on a postive note they will do tests now to see if there is anything that is wrong that they can fix
im so sorry hun xxx
Sophie, sorry to hear of your losses it was hard to deal with one but 3 must be really rough! are they not investigating why this keeps happening? surely they would after the third time, it must be heartbreaking xxx
its not fair. Today has been really hard as i was 12 days late & i was getting my hopes up again, very foolish of me. There was no way i could be pregnant this month as we havent been trying but you know you always hold on to hope dont you? Well finally the 
got my today & that was it i lost it, i havent known what to do with myself today. 
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