m_t_rose

I am such a miserable cow. One of the women I work with told me she was pregnant when I was still pregnant. She was 5 days ahead of me in her pregnancy. She got to hear the heart beat today it is just made me think such sad thought. I kept thinking why does she get to keep hers but I lose mine. She is 34 and has a 1 year old. I guess I am just jealous. I feel bad becuase she deserves it and she is older so she has less time but I still feel jealous.

shockd&amazed

I know how you feel...I feel the same sometimes just looking at pregnant people. And when I went for my follow up scan to check mine had gone, happily pregnant women were wanderng by!!
I think it's normal and all part of the grieving process. But you've proven you can get pregnant and I am sure it won't be long til you're hearing the heartbeat too!!

Good luck xxx

Rumpskin

Hey lovely, I know exactly how you feel. A girl I know has told us she is pregnant. I am really happy for her but hey, I feel jealous. I dont like feeling jealous and am not proud.

Our turn will come x

Vickie

I think what you are feeling is completely normal

Omi

Dont feel bad! Its perfectly normal to feel that way...im the same. I dont even feel bad about it cause i know its not personally against them, its the injustice in the world that makes me feel that way..its the 'why not me?' isnt it?

I could go on, cause i work in social services-addictions...and there's stuff there i see daily that makes my blood boil, honestly ...

I try to be happy with knowing i got pregnant and try to focus on that, you know?

It'll happen for you, babe, it will xxx

FunnyBunny

I knew how you feel, I was at a Christening on Sunday, there were loads of mums and three pregnant girls and it was only been a week since my m/c, at one point I had to walk away from the group cause of all the baby talk. I was feeling so jealous and really sorry for myself.

I keep trying to think postive thoughts but it is really hard but so natural if so many of us feel this way.

Wobbles

What you are feeling is perfectly normal hun

It will get a little easier.

Here hoping your journey brings what you deserve soon