I have been so happy go lucky the past few weeks, even thru all the problems going on with no , and being on CD55 today, and with the new meds only expecting AF CD77. But to get to the point.

I have been thinking it might have been my fault lossing my son, i did the horrible thing of still smoking while i was pregnant, and i picked up to much weight and that is why i had high blood pressure and that is why i had an abrupture.

Is it trully my fault, cause i don't think i will ever be able to forgive myself for not taking care of myself during my pregnancy, cause in the end i didn't take care of my baby

Soz forgot no signature "son stilborn 37weeks and 2days" just for info sake

I don't think it's your fault at all. I have several family members who smoke and most smoked (although they did cut back) throughout their pregnancy's. Unfortunately what happened to you sometimes happens to people. You can't blame yourself for it

sweetheart it's not your fault

smoking will cause breathing problems in a baby and a low birth weight. Gaining weight is what happens during pregnancy.

thinking of you xxxx

sweetie its not your fault i know how easy it is to blame yourself but youll end up torturing yourself and it wont make your head healthy

x

It's not your fault!

Hi thought you could use.
Thinking of you hun xxxx

Oh darling, I am sorry you are feeling down.

Please dont blame yourself.

Hi sweetie,

It's not your fault and you should never blame yourself. I have known people to smoke and do all sorts of things during their pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies.
My next door neighbour was permently drunk and smoked heavly during her pregnancy and she had a healthy little boy.
You could have done everything perfectly and gone by the book word for word and would have still come out with the same outcome.
what if's can never change anything. Just look to the future and fingers crossed you will have your chance again

Don't be so harsh on yourself... It isn't your fault.