awww hun im so sorry for what u went and are goin through. Its not easy i know, i had a m/c this year in april i should have been 14 wks at the time, and to be honest im still not over it! i have days where im fine and days where i just want to cry all day!! It has changed me as a person in a very big way. the pains easier now but its still there!!
I think u should allow yourself time to greive and please dont blame yourself for any off it, the day my baby died is the day me an my OH had fallen out really bad an i really stressed myself out about it, an i off course blamed myself for the m/c, this made things ten times worse as my pain was blame an i couldn't greive properly! A m/c happens for a reason is what i believe now and its of no fault to anyone
sory for waffling
