I am so very sorry for your loss Good luck in the hospital, and will be thinking of you -x-

Tulip I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

I had an ERPC after our 12 wk scan revealed our bean had stopped growing at 6 weeks. Like you I was in disbelief as I'd had no reason to think or feel that anything was wrong during those weeks and it is devastating when you find out such bad news about the little one .

I'm glad they have managed to get you in quite quickly for the erpc. The op itself really isn't as bad as it sounds when they describe it, I was home within a few hours and my recovery physically afterwards has been pretty straightforward. Emotionally though you can explect to be very up and down, it has been three weeks since we found out and I am still having moments where I suddenly get upset about whats happened, it's all part of the grieving process though I suppose.

Keep talking to your OH, I don't know how I would've got through it all without my husband, he really has been my rock. The girls on here are all very supportive and understanding too so feel free to vent or get stuff off your chest - there, unfortunately are a lot of us who will understand some of the feelings you are going through at the moment.

Look after yourself

Tulip - I am so sorry to read your post and learn of your loss. You are an amazing person- managing to give me support when you've just been through this, take care x