feeling down

sarah1981 · Dec 10th, 2009, 12:16 PM

I have had 2 miscarriages this year, one in feb at 7 weeks and 1 in may at 11 weeks. My friend just announced today that she is 18 weeks pregnant, i am really happy for her but also very upset and angry as she had not been ttc. I have been ttc for 1 and half years and life just feels so unfair. I cant stop crying i just keep thinking i should be a mum by now.

missjay · Dec 10th, 2009, 12:30 PM

Aww hun, I know how if feels, ( lost my beanie 30th of nov 09), the girl who sits next to me @ work wasn't trying and we wud hev been due three days apart! Am due to go back to work next Monday and am dreading it, she still has hers, and feel so jealous and angry.

But I learnt my time will come, and am trying to move on. Hope you feel better sending you hugsxxx take care

abbysbaby · Dec 10th, 2009, 12:35 PM

oh sweetie, i no it must be hard, i had a mc at 7w, alot of ppl wud think thats early but makes no diff wat stage, there all angels. u will learn to produce the strenght that comes out of it all and u will become a stronger person which u may not feel like yet. ur time will come, everyone does - i believe - have a happy ending. everyone is here for u to speak to, its always good to let anything out ur system, never let it build up, im bad for that and im learnin to speak out about things more. its good u came on here for comfort. life is v unfair, but im sure it will be made up in time. xxx

sarah1981 · Dec 10th, 2009, 12:47 PM

Hi missjay, so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is in the weeks after mc. thank you for understanding. hugsxx

Dec 10th, 2009, 12:16 PM	#1
sarah1981 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: leeds Posts: 17	feeling down I have had 2 miscarriages this year, one in feb at 7 weeks and 1 in may at 11 weeks. My friend just announced today that she is 18 weeks pregnant, i am really happy for her but also very upset and angry as she had not been ttc. I have been ttc for 1 and half years and life just feels so unfair. I cant stop crying i just keep thinking i should be a mum by now.

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Dec 10th, 2009, 12:30 PM	#2
missjay Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: essex Posts: 354	Aww hun, I know how if feels, ( lost my beanie 30th of nov 09), the girl who sits next to me @ work wasn't trying and we wud hev been due three days apart! Am due to go back to work next Monday and am dreading it, she still has hers, and feel so jealous and angry. But I learnt my time will come, and am trying to move on. Hope you feel better sending you hugsxxx take care

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Dec 10th, 2009, 12:35 PM	#3
abbysbaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: uk Posts: 853	oh sweetie, i no it must be hard, i had a mc at 7w, alot of ppl wud think thats early but makes no diff wat stage, there all angels. u will learn to produce the strenght that comes out of it all and u will become a stronger person which u may not feel like yet. ur time will come, everyone does - i believe - have a happy ending. everyone is here for u to speak to, its always good to let anything out ur system, never let it build up, im bad for that and im learnin to speak out about things more. its good u came on here for comfort. life is v unfair, but im sure it will be made up in time. xxx

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Dec 10th, 2009, 12:47 PM	#4
sarah1981 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: leeds Posts: 17	Hi missjay, so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is in the weeks after mc. thank you for understanding. hugsxx

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