baby stopped develloping at 9+2... pg 9: its finally over... one month later.

hannah76 · Dec 9th, 2009, 21:15 PM

i'm supposed to be 11 weeks this week, but had my first scan and it looks like its a no go. saw the baby but it wasn't moving and no heartbeat.

so what should i expect now? the other threads i see all mc'd at like 5 weeks. i havent' had any bleeding yet so if nothing happens by next wed then i'll get the script to make me bleed.

i just hope its all over before xmas. what timing!!!!

chirp123 · Dec 9th, 2009, 21:51 PM

So sorry to hear about your loss. If you don't do it on your own, they will do a d&c. Either way it is going to be uncomfortable and you will bleed quite a bit. I have mc naturally and had a d&c. Doing it naturally was alot easier physically, but having to wait for your body to take care of things is so hard emotionally. I hope that you are holding up okay. Good luck

sma1588 · Dec 9th, 2009, 21:55 PM

im sorry hunny

nothing i say is going to make you feel better but im very sorry for your loss

shocker · Dec 9th, 2009, 22:15 PM

Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your little one, i was 14 weeks 4 days but i opted for a d&c and the bleeding stopped after just over a week. Drazic<3 posted in here explaining about how her medically managed miscarriage went at 10 weeks if you look back you should find it and it might help if thats the option your choosing.Wish i could say something to take away the pain for you hun but theres just no words, thinking of you

Megg33k · Dec 10th, 2009, 00:15 AM

Omg, honey! I'm SOOOOOO sorry!

I know there are no words that could possibly help! If you need to talk, please feel free to contact me. I'm going through reasonably the same thing right now.

I wish I had something profound for you. Lots of love to you and yours!

debgreasby · Dec 10th, 2009, 01:46 AM

So sorry sweetie. Take care of yourself x

Diggydog · Dec 10th, 2009, 04:15 AM

Im so sorry for your loss hun. Its the worst feeling being so close to the end of 1st tri.

I went through the same thing last week, i was suppose to be 11 weeks 6 days when i had my scan and was told no heartbeat.

I had a ERPC (D&C) booked for 4 days later(This monday), i didnt have any bleeding or cramping upto the ERPC. After the op i only had some spotting that evening and the next morning. Its the 3rd day today since the op im having awful cramps but have taken some pain killers which seemed to of helped.

Take care huni

xxxx

mandy81 · Dec 10th, 2009, 04:55 AM

I'm soo sorry hun, bigs ((hugs ))) to you xxx

Liz2 · Dec 10th, 2009, 11:18 AM

Oh honey

I am so sorry for your loss. I am not sure what to tell you to expect as I had a D&C the day after I found out there was no heartbeat. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this right now, I wish I had words to take the pain away. Let me know if you ever need to chat

SmileyShazza · Dec 10th, 2009, 11:54 AM

Sorry to hear of your loss.

I found out at our 12 weeks scan 2 weeks ago that our little one had stopped growing at about 6 weeks 3 days and it is absolutely heartbreaking especially when you think you have almost made it through the 1st trimester. My thoughts go out to you and your OH.

I can't advise you on the medical management as I decided to opt for an ERPC (similar to D & C) and for me it was the best option, I had no bleeding afterwards and the operation itself wasn't actually that bad.

Sending you a big

Dec 9th, 2009, 21:15 PM	#1
hannah76 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 4,824	baby stopped develloping at 9+2... pg 9: its finally over... one month later. i'm supposed to be 11 weeks this week, but had my first scan and it looks like its a no go. saw the baby but it wasn't moving and no heartbeat. so what should i expect now? the other threads i see all mc'd at like 5 weeks. i havent' had any bleeding yet so if nothing happens by next wed then i'll get the script to make me bleed. i just hope its all over before xmas. what timing!!!!

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Dec 9th, 2009, 21:51 PM	#2
chirp123 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: utah Posts: 30	So sorry to hear about your loss. If you don't do it on your own, they will do a d&c. Either way it is going to be uncomfortable and you will bleed quite a bit. I have mc naturally and had a d&c. Doing it naturally was alot easier physically, but having to wait for your body to take care of things is so hard emotionally. I hope that you are holding up okay. Good luck

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Dec 9th, 2009, 21:55 PM	#3
sma1588 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: california USA Posts: 3,481	im sorry hunny nothing i say is going to make you feel better but im very sorry for your loss

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Dec 9th, 2009, 22:15 PM	#4
shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your little one, i was 14 weeks 4 days but i opted for a d&c and the bleeding stopped after just over a week. Drazic<3 posted in here explaining about how her medically managed miscarriage went at 10 weeks if you look back you should find it and it might help if thats the option your choosing.Wish i could say something to take away the pain for you hun but theres just no words, thinking of you

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Dec 10th, 2009, 00:15 AM	#5
Megg33k Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Gallifrey! <3 Posts: 34,643	Omg, honey! I'm SOOOOOO sorry! I know there are no words that could possibly help! If you need to talk, please feel free to contact me. I'm going through reasonably the same thing right now. I wish I had something profound for you. Lots of love to you and yours!

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Dec 10th, 2009, 01:46 AM	#6
debgreasby Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Sutton in Ashfield, Notts Posts: 5,561	So sorry sweetie. Take care of yourself x

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Dec 10th, 2009, 04:15 AM	#7
Diggydog Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: essex Posts: 979	Im so sorry for your loss hun. Its the worst feeling being so close to the end of 1st tri. I went through the same thing last week, i was suppose to be 11 weeks 6 days when i had my scan and was told no heartbeat. I had a ERPC (D&C) booked for 4 days later(This monday), i didnt have any bleeding or cramping upto the ERPC. After the op i only had some spotting that evening and the next morning. Its the 3rd day today since the op im having awful cramps but have taken some pain killers which seemed to of helped. Take care huni xxxx

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Dec 10th, 2009, 04:55 AM	#8
mandy81 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: UK Posts: 7,067	I'm soo sorry hun, bigs ((hugs ))) to you xxx

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Dec 10th, 2009, 11:18 AM	#9
Liz2 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: California Posts: 3,845	Oh honey I am so sorry for your loss. I am not sure what to tell you to expect as I had a D&C the day after I found out there was no heartbeat. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this right now, I wish I had words to take the pain away. Let me know if you ever need to chat

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Dec 10th, 2009, 11:54 AM	#10
SmileyShazza On a break (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Buckinghamshire Posts: 5,357	Sorry to hear of your loss. I found out at our 12 weeks scan 2 weeks ago that our little one had stopped growing at about 6 weeks 3 days and it is absolutely heartbreaking especially when you think you have almost made it through the 1st trimester. My thoughts go out to you and your OH. I can't advise you on the medical management as I decided to opt for an ERPC (similar to D & C) and for me it was the best option, I had no bleeding afterwards and the operation itself wasn't actually that bad. Sending you a big

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