i really dont know what to do with myself. After yesterdays events i'm feeling so down and not with it at all. Been trying all day not to burst into tears, but i can't stop it now. Have had so many people offer to come round but i can't bear to see anyone right now cos i'm so scared of people thinking i'm overreacting.
We have tried for so long to get pregnant and i have never been so happy as i was last week when we had two positive tests, and now i feel my whole life has jsut stopped.
i'm scared i'll not stop feeling like this, and i'm scared it's never going to happen.

i wish i could see into the future right now, i'm struggling so much with all this

I don't think there is a right and a wrong way to deal with a loss. Each person has to do what's best for them. It will happen for you, you will have your baby

Oh sweety, allow yourself to cry. You will feel a bit better if you do.

I am 2 months on from my m/c and I am okay.

You will be too xxx

I can't say I know how you feel hun..because I don't.
What I will say though is you have every right to grieve...no-body is going to think you are over-reacting, and those that do have obviously never been through the pain of losing a baby.
It isn't important what others think or feel, you just concentrate on getting through this however you can
And chick......it will happen for you.
Thinking of you

Nice to know you have people that care but its nice to have the space you need so look after you. It never goes away I can't lie but it does get better - you will get stronger.

sweetheart don't lose hope ...it will happen . Thinking of you.

Sweetie

I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through, I've been there, too...
Please feel free to feel what ever you want and don't think anything you do or feel is unatural, its natural to you and its how you need to deal with it!

I will tell you what my friend said to me, and she had miscarried a month before me- you will feel better, you will. In the meantime just take all the time you need and be good to yourself. I didnt do any housework for a week and could barely bother to dress..this site was a godsend to me. All the kind words and advice made me feel better..but we are all different. Its been 3 weeks since my d&c and i feel quite normal... i think about it a lot, but im not distraught anymore. It was a terrible shock what happened but i feel optimistic that it will happen again, and i take some solace in the fact that after a mc one is usually more fertile.

Take care, sweetie..thinking of you..

So sorry for you loss... I know how you are feeling I have been there too and it does suck!! With time you will start to feel better i am not going to lie you will never forget but the hurt you are feeling right now will go away. Don't worry about what others think who cares. Until someone has gone through a m/c they have know idea what toll it take on you. I will keep you in my prayers take care hon.

I am so sorry hun! We are here for you! Just take time for you right now. Just rest and take time to heal from this. Do it on your terms. I know it is hard, but everyday that goes by for me is just a little better. I will be thinking of you and praying for you! Take care!