I agree with everyone, there is no right way to get through something like this. Each person has to do it in their own way. Just keep your head up, and do whatever you need to do to get through it. I was devastated after my m/c in October. I can't know exactly what you are going through - but we are all here for you

I also agree with the rest of the girls...its all about time.

With mine ...one time i was feeling strong than the next i was devasted snd angry cos i was like everyone looking forward to it.

I think the turning point for me...is when i felt my body returning back to normal. It made me stronger again and i thoguht i know now how much i want this...and i m happy again that i can start trying.

I know nothing seems to make sense for a while but i agree that this site was a good start for me... cos you hear all the girls talking about their experiences and it lets you know your not alone.. That there is someone somewhere feeling the same pain..and everyone on babyand bump gives support through the bad times and also when we hear that good news again... they are all here for us.

Its going to get better for you...and you know along the way if you need to ask something or you just need to let of air...we are here

Hi Mrs F,
sorry for what happened to you. Like Omi said, I couldn't be bothered to dress/ get up for days after my miscarriage and everything felt very dark and dismal - as if there was no hope.
Then one day i just thought: sod this, I have to carry on. I got up and can't lie, i felt miserable, but day by day it's got better and now I am feeling more positive (still sad) but more positive about the future.
We just all have to keep trying.
This site helped me a lot and remember everyone is rooting for each other.
Hope you feel much much better bit by bit and very soonxx

Chin up ladies, most of you gals know my story and if you dont go search for my story R18 very sad i posted about 1month ago. READ IT.

iam still today going thru hell on Cd41 and no , slight cramps but nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now i woke up one morning and soz for the language but i told myself, "Get the Fuck over it, pull yourself together, thank the lord he spared your own life and make the best of every day you have."

Now i know it is so damn hard each and every day, i have even contemplated taking my own life once before, but hell no i won't go down without living my life to it's fullest. Read all my posts and you tell me if im lucky to still have the courage to get out of bed each day?????

Girls, cause sometimes all we need is just a hug and a shoulder