Stacey_89

So my Fiance works in a bar, so i went out with my mate to where he works for a couple of drinks and a catch up.

Then she told me her friend Nicky was coming in... Who is pregnant and was 2 days overdue, so i thought ok im sure i will be fine.... but then she walked over with a LARGE glass of wine drank it very quick then went back to the bar and got a pint

All i wanted to do was shout at her !!!!!

Why does the bad stuff always happen to good people????

All i cud think was i lost my baby when i was doing everything right,good diet,stopped smoking,lots of water,folic acid

and shes sat there drinking alcohol with the most precious thing inside her.

soooo many woman would do anything to have what she has....and shes just treating her pregnancy like its nothing !!


Sorry if i sound nasty, but it just does not seem fair

bevan88

i know what you mean

I quit smoking didnt touch a drop of alchol ate foods i hated and did everything right!

ARHHHHHHH Its so annoying!

shocker

That doesnt sound in the least bit nasty, if it was me i probablly would have screamed and stormed out
A girl i used to be in school with drank coffee,alcohol and smoked.She basically did everything wrong and i went online about 2 weeks ago and saw pictures uploaded of her and her son who she had just had,I wanted to scream.Shes 17 and a complete idiot I logged on earlier then and saw her update her bebo with "gonna get so drunk tonight headin out with the girls" WTF!!!!! her son cant be more than 3 weeks old, i understand letting off some steam but i just know shes going to be one of those mothers that palm her kids off on others so they can go out every night! I cant even begin to tell you how bitter it made me.I did everything right, i stayed in every night crocheting baby blankets,quit smoking drinking everything!! Its not fair, its not right, i really cant understand why she has everything i want but appreciates none of it

makeithappen

im with you girls! i hardly had a proper nights sleep wen i was preg as i was afraid of rolling onto my tummy... i used to prop myself up with pillows to make sure i didnt! this was just one of the crazy things i did to keep my baby safe...another was i stopped wearing tight jeans, belts etc just incase it was effecting my little one. i obviously didnt drink or smoke & i spent a Fortune on pregnancy tablets etc! still i lost him/her!

life is so unfair!!!!!!!

zoe87

Hello.
I know what u mean im exactly the same when i was pregnant before i miscarried for the 2nd time my friend was pregannt the same time and she smoked 40 fags a day and drank 3 bottles of a wine a night and she went onto have a succesful pregnancy!

Really does hurt when u know your doing everything right and then theres women like that who dont seem to care what they are putting in their body at the risk of their baby.

Stacey_89

Well my friends mate has had her baby now.
Im rele happy for her and glad the baby is very well, but i just still feel like its all unfair and when i see her baby i know deep down it will be heart renching !!!

chachadada

Huni i know exactly what u mean, i stopped smoking, drink, forced myself to eat greens and started taking folic acid and vitamins straight away; basically done everything possible to ensure i was looking after my bean and i still lost my angel
Then there's this girl i went school with out raving it up all the way through her pregnancy, i'm a homey girl go out once in a blue mood and to be told by my party girls they see her out all the time drinking ahhhhh!
im talking 8+ months and shes in a rave drinking and shit, she gave birth this week to a healthy gorgeous baby boy..thank god but then again question him on 'why us that try to ensure all goes well suffer a loss?!'

xx

hopr your doing ok huni