Omi

Ive had an upset tummy as well.. ugh! apparently its normal after a d&c..

I also have to be honest and say that even if i was told to wait but i was physically fine, i wouldnt.. Im Miss Impatient and have no time to lose, lol....

Cazza

Hi Ladies,

Just wanted to say thanks you so much for your replies.. it helps to know that im not the only one going through this and as not many of my friends know my situo or have ever suffered what I have just gone through it helps ALOT!

I am most definitley trying to get pregnant again and in the least amount of time... I am also very impatient and very paranoid that it will happen again and just want everything to be ok second time around. It makes me think can I have babies at all...

Fingers crossed for next time!! xxxx

Omi

Hi Cazza,

you are so welcome and im glad we could help a little...

im gonna say something really silly, cause im sure i wont follow this advice myself, but try not to be paranoid...mc happens to most women, even in my own family and OH's as well, and all have gone on to have healthy pg's and babies after...

However, i did ask the doc about getting an early scan next time and he said he didnt think that would be a problem, and i sure am getting one..just so i dont go crazy with worry

Take good care of yourself and you'll see in time you will be ready, willing and able!! here's to us all getting a sooner rather than later!!

bethyb

hi...
I had a erpc on Nov 12 th after having a missed miscarriage.
I bled for around a week and then my period returned about a month later.
My periods were very heavy after the erpc which I guess was just my body getting better. (i asked the doc and he said they actually scrape ur womb so heavy periods are normal for the first few months) He also advised I wait at least one period before trying again pref three months to let my body heal which I did. My baby was due in May so in order to try and deal with that I booked a dream hol to the US beginning of May, although somehow god had other plans for me and has given me another chance, a miracle baby - im now six weeks gone today.
Im very very nervous and lack of morning sickness is really worrying me although I know im still early days.
thats my story..

cheeselover

Congratulations Beth!!! That is fantastic news, I am sure it is natural to feel nervous. I am sure if/when I get pregnant again I will be as well! Can I ask...when is everyone else going try again? I am scared and very excited but not sure if I should follow doctors orders or just go for it (she said wait 2 months). She also told me not to have sex till next week when I see her for check up!!!

bethyb

yeah its to do with infection..
I wanted to get pregnant the day after the op (my way of trying to cope) but glad I waited. I feel I have dealt with my hurt and anger over the whole thing and now i just feel sad that it didnt work, that it wasnt meant to be.
its your personal choice hunny
I just hope and pray this gift is given to me.. xx