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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 07:26 AM   #1
mika
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Unhappy

This is now my 4th :(


Well today i have gained my 4th angel in 18 months
I really dont know how i will cope, i feel so sad and empty.
I dont feel i want to try again to end up going through the same thing over and over again.
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 08:18 AM   #2
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I am so sorry for your losses and can only begin to imagine the hurt and pain you are going through. Stay strong, stay healthy, and keep pushing through. It gets easier *at least thats what they all tell us right* My prayers are with you and your decision making!! If you need someone to talk to - or cry with, Im here.
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 08:22 AM   #3
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sooooo sorry your going through this x
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 09:43 AM   #4
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So sorry for your loss x x
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 15:29 PM   #5
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So sorry for your loss hunni.....no words will make it any better, but how about some hugs???
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 17:26 PM   #6
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so sorry, im still trying to cope with 1 messy meiscarage but 4 wow!

I dont even know if i can face ever trying again after just 1 so i do appreciate your fears a little.

I know thers nothing i can say to take away your pain, i also know hearing that some people have had 9 Miscarages and then had a healthy baby wont matter to you!

Your not alone though with the empty feeling.

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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 18:06 PM   #7
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Sorry for what you have been through. Have you had any tests or been referred to a MC specialist. As you have been through this 4 times now, it isn't just "bad luck" and hopefully you will find an answer.
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 21:34 PM   #8
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Hi Mika, so sorry for your losses - know how it feels. There are lots of lovely ladies on the recurrent miscarriage thread if you'd like to keep in touch.
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 22:23 PM   #9
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thanks to every one for your nice replys... i am off for a scan friday to make sure my angel has gone, so will be asking ..... well BEGGING for answers..

Thanks xxx
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Old Nov 24th, 2009, 23:17 PM   #10
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So Sorry Mika I know you must be feeling really low at the minute & were all here for you if you want a rant or a cry or anything at all huny. My heart really does go out to you & u deserve some answers sweetie so dont leave that hospital untill you get some!! Demand to be refererred for fertlity testing, they can even take tissue samples from u to find out what has gone wrong this time hun so they can prevent the same thing happening again! Again so sorry take care of yourself ok chicken & here if you need a chat x x x lov Caz x x x
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