This is now my 4th :(

mika · Nov 24th, 2009, 01:26 AM

Well today i have gained my 4th angel in 18 months

I really dont know how i will cope, i feel so sad and empty.
I dont feel i want to try again to end up going through the same thing over and over again.

MommyAJ · Nov 24th, 2009, 02:18 AM

I am so sorry for your losses and can only begin to imagine the hurt and pain you are going through. Stay strong, stay healthy, and keep pushing through. It gets easier *at least thats what they all tell us right* My prayers are with you and your decision making!! If you need someone to talk to - or cry with, Im here.

makeithappen · Nov 24th, 2009, 02:22 AM

sooooo sorry your going through this x

lolly25 · Nov 24th, 2009, 03:43 AM

So sorry for your loss

x x

Amos2009 · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:29 AM

So sorry for your loss hunni.....no words will make it any better, but how about some hugs???

bevan88 · Nov 24th, 2009, 11:26 AM

so sorry, im still trying to cope with 1 messy meiscarage but 4 wow!

I dont even know if i can face ever trying again after just 1 so i do appreciate your fears a little.

I know thers nothing i can say to take away your pain, i also know hearing that some people have had 9 Miscarages and then had a healthy baby wont matter to you!

Your not alone though with the empty feeling.

sk100 · Nov 24th, 2009, 12:06 PM

Sorry for what you have been through. Have you had any tests or been referred to a MC specialist. As you have been through this 4 times now, it isn't just "bad luck" and hopefully you will find an answer.

Smiler13 · Nov 24th, 2009, 15:34 PM

Hi Mika, so sorry for your losses - know how it feels. There are lots of lovely ladies on the recurrent miscarriage thread if you'd like to keep in touch.

mika · Nov 24th, 2009, 16:23 PM

thanks to every one for your nice replys... i am off for a scan friday to make sure my angel has gone, so will be asking ..... well BEGGING for answers..

Thanks xxx

cazza22 · Nov 24th, 2009, 17:17 PM

So Sorry Mika

I know you must be feeling really low at the minute & were all here for you if you want a rant or a cry or anything at all huny. My heart really does go out to you & u deserve some answers sweetie so dont leave that hospital untill you get some!! Demand to be refererred for fertlity testing, they can even take tissue samples from u to find out what has gone wrong this time hun so they can prevent the same thing happening again! Again so sorry take care of yourself ok chicken & here if you need a chat x x x lov Caz x x x

Nov 24th, 2009, 01:26 AM	#1
mika Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west midlands Posts: 185	This is now my 4th :( Well today i have gained my 4th angel in 18 months I really dont know how i will cope, i feel so sad and empty. I dont feel i want to try again to end up going through the same thing over and over again.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 02:18 AM	#2
MommyAJ Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern California Posts: 37	I am so sorry for your losses and can only begin to imagine the hurt and pain you are going through. Stay strong, stay healthy, and keep pushing through. It gets easier at least thats what they all tell us right My prayers are with you and your decision making!! If you need someone to talk to - or cry with, Im here.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 02:22 AM	#3
makeithappen Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: northern ireland, Belfast Posts: 2,765	sooooo sorry your going through this x

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Nov 24th, 2009, 03:43 AM	#4
lolly25 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wirral, north west uk Posts: 995	So sorry for your loss x x

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Nov 24th, 2009, 09:29 AM	#5
Amos2009 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Alabama US Posts: 3,417	So sorry for your loss hunni.....no words will make it any better, but how about some hugs???

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Nov 24th, 2009, 11:26 AM	#6
bevan88 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: UK Posts: 227	so sorry, im still trying to cope with 1 messy meiscarage but 4 wow! I dont even know if i can face ever trying again after just 1 so i do appreciate your fears a little. I know thers nothing i can say to take away your pain, i also know hearing that some people have had 9 Miscarages and then had a healthy baby wont matter to you! Your not alone though with the empty feeling.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 12:06 PM	#7
sk100 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 536	Sorry for what you have been through. Have you had any tests or been referred to a MC specialist. As you have been through this 4 times now, it isn't just "bad luck" and hopefully you will find an answer.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 15:34 PM	#8
Smiler13 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Surrey Posts: 496	Hi Mika, so sorry for your losses - know how it feels. There are lots of lovely ladies on the recurrent miscarriage thread if you'd like to keep in touch.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 16:23 PM	#9
mika Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west midlands Posts: 185	thanks to every one for your nice replys... i am off for a scan friday to make sure my angel has gone, so will be asking ..... well BEGGING for answers.. Thanks xxx

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Nov 24th, 2009, 17:17 PM	#10
cazza22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 2,245	So Sorry Mika I know you must be feeling really low at the minute & were all here for you if you want a rant or a cry or anything at all huny. My heart really does go out to you & u deserve some answers sweetie so dont leave that hospital untill you get some!! Demand to be refererred for fertlity testing, they can even take tissue samples from u to find out what has gone wrong this time hun so they can prevent the same thing happening again! Again so sorry take care of yourself ok chicken & here if you need a chat x x x lov Caz x x x

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