Stacey_89

Hey ladies just need some advise.
I had a natural MC on May 30th this year, and i was told my cycles should return normal.

But 6 months later and iv only had 3 cycles, just waitin for the 4th now.
my cycles have been CD38,CD39,CD43 and before the MC i was 28days.

Atm im on CD41 and nothing!!! not even having cramps or anything.
Took a test on sat and was BFN,so i dont know whats going on,
weather im going to be rele late again or im pregnant and might of ovulated late this month so im not getting a positive yet, but this month iv had LOTS of symptons,

i just feel rele low and confused Anyone else sufferd with crazy cycles after a MC?

i rele need some advise

Thanks ladies

goddess25

My cycles were always a bit erratic and variable in length... but after my M/c I did find they were longer, it took about 4-5 months to go back to normal and for me thats 28-32 days it varies each month.
Hope they return to normal hun

Jessa

It took me a few months to get back to normal after my miscarriage back in February. If my cycles were as erratic as yours are, I think I would make an appointment with my doctor to see what they had to say. Good luck!

Stacey_89

Thanks ladies.
Yeah i think i will give my doctor a ring 2moro for an appoitment, its just so frustrating my OH thinks im pregnant but i dont want to get my hopes up.

sophster

Hi hun

I would see your doctor; I have irregular cycles like this all the time; they were like yours and then after I had my youngest one month I just skipped a period and the same happened every other month. It didn't stop me getting pregnant though when my cycles were like yours; its just much harder to tell when you're ovulating. Sometimes after having a baby or even miscarriage things can get knocked out of sync even if its not a more serious hormonal problem at stake, but your body just loses sense of the natural rhythm of your cycle. Sometimes giving you hormonal tablets for a short period of time, or putting you on the pill for a few months; can really help as when you get off the medication your body is given like a reset and things are put right though your cycle may not be the exact same length as it was. Ironically though, so far though it seems the miscarriage may well have put right the problems with my cycles; I'm not expecting them to be like clockwork but it does look from tracking my cycle that this time my period is going to come between 28 and 31 days after the last which hasn't happened for well over a year. Also my hormonal imbalance seems to have improved dramatically.

Sophie x

Stacey_89

Thankyou sophie that helped me alot
My plan is im going to see what happens so wait for AF or hoping BFP soon, but if AF does come then i will go docs and tell them whats going off.
The longer my cycle takes to come the more i get excited bout being pregnant,which i dont want to do,incase i just get disapointed in the end.

I have no idea when to test tho when my cycles are like this, when did you test ?

trying4#1

hiya

it can take some time for things to settle down - i would defo recommend that you raise your concerns with the dr though, as they can 1)give you peace of mind or 2)refer you if needed....my periods had not really settled after i delivered my boy at 22weeks, but i used every "extra" day as a day for potential conception...do this...dont feel that your cycle is over and stop ttc until your period actually comes, also remain calm (i know it is easier said than done) cos that can have major neg effects on your body's ability to conceive x

Stacey_89

Thanks people.
AF arrived today on CD42, iv rang the doctors aswell got an appoitment for friday
abit gutted that im not pregnant but relieved its finaly here, seems painful this month tho,sat here with a hot water bottle lol.

Jessa

I'm glad you've made an appointment. It was making that doctor's appointment that made me feel like there might be some hope again. He's put me on femara (like clomid) and is very aware of me wanting to get myself back to how I was before my miscarriage in February. We'll see how it goes. Good luck!