Well ladies - it was confirmed today. I went to the ER and spent several hours doing ultrasounds and blood work and dictating my horrible weekend of clotting and bleeding. After telling the story of being at Denny's and the sharp pains, and seeing what looked like ....something it shouldn't have coming out of my body, I could see the look in my dr's eyes.

Just as I had suspected, the baby was no longer with me. I'm heartbroken, even though this pregnancy wasn't planned, it certainly wasn't unwanted. I know that I should be thankful for the two beautiful daughters I have, but I feel a whole inside of me.

I didn't realize how much I wanted this baby till I lost it ... and I know it happens for a reason, god only gives us what we can handle, time heals all wounds... still just doesn't take away this hurt and pain.

My DH wasn't too thrilled about this pregnancy and when the comment was made about trying later, the roll of the eyes came and the "probably not" comment was made. I felt like that was my last chance of making our family whole.... I just don't know what to do.

I found out a few days ago that my baby had passed away, and its no longer living, the emptiness is horrible, i'm only 18 and I can even say, i don't think I will ever go through a life disaster like this again.

thoughts are with you <3

...and with you hun! (((hugs))))

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you and hubby can come to a conclusion that works for both of you over time.

im soo sorry for your loss
i am going throught the same thing but this is now my 4th so i know sort of how you are feling..

lots of love xxx

Oh Mika - my thoughts and prayers are with you too!!!! ((()))

so sorry for your loss xx

So sorry for your loss It never matters if the baby was planned or not, once you become pregnant, that baby becomes a part of you.
Men- now that's a whole 'nother story...they are not the most sensitive creatures, that's for sure Mine sort of acted the same way after our first loss- but I found out later it was just because he was scared of it happening again and me going through it again. Maybe that's what yours is doing too

Sorry for your loss, iam sure your OH is upset too and his remark prob not may have been cause he wouldnt want to see you go through this again.

Sorry you are hurting.