what can i do ????

Stacey_89 · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:44 PM

So my due date would of been december 13th
and i have no idea what to do for it

Shall i blank it all out and put on a brave face with a fake smile

or

Do something special with OH... but dnt rele know what

i just dnt know how to feel about my due date, i want to be strong and positive and not get upset, cuz i hate it when i get upset i feel like an idiot and tell myself to stop bein stupid... but at the same time i want to remember my angel that i carried for 12 weeks

just feel confused

Mrs Doddy · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:56 PM

It's going to be a difficult day. I personally think it should be marked somehow. Have you and your h have a special place that you could go to? Maybe to release some balloons ?? My due date is a Sunday but am thinking that I will take the Monday off work too.

I don't think that you will be able to blank it out if it's already on your mind now

shocker · Nov 6th, 2009, 17:00 PM

I would say mark it however you feel you should, its a personal thing.I think you should try and do something special, as you may be upset that you didnt at a later time if you dont.It will be an upsetting day no matter how you go about it so i would say do whatever you feel you can, if thats just staying in with your oh thinking of them then thats ok.If you want to do something then maybe plant a tree or flower? the balloon release is also lovely, take a special day for you and your oh to have dinner or a day trip or even just writing a little letter to them? Hope your ok its alright to be upset

bevan88 · Nov 6th, 2009, 18:09 PM

My due date would be april fools day next year! typical of my entire story!

However i would say mark it weather thats crying all day doing something special feeling sorry for yourself or just doing whatever feels right!

Just go with your gut instinct there is no right or wrong just do what you feel is right!

Las78 · Nov 7th, 2009, 03:19 AM

Hun, do whatever feels right for you, thats all that is important, take the day as it comes if you're not sure.

I was quite numb on my EDD, took the day off work and just wondered aimlessly about the house really. I did do something special for my angel but without OH, I needed to be on my own and do my own thing, I feel bad about that now as it was his baby too but through out my loss and grieving I found comfort in being by myself and in my own little world.

It is different for everyone hun, I hope the day is however you want it to be x

Stacey_89 · Nov 7th, 2009, 21:11 PM

Thanks everyone

I think i will probz just stay in with OH, light some candles,have loads of cuddles and talks and probz a good cry ! Always seem to feel abit better after a good cry and let it all out, OH always says the right things to cheer me up after and end up giggling and wiping my runny mascara lol

x

Nov 6th, 2009, 15:44 PM	#1
Stacey_89 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Nottingham Posts: 1,021	what can i do ???? So my due date would of been december 13th and i have no idea what to do for it Shall i blank it all out and put on a brave face with a fake smile or Do something special with OH... but dnt rele know what i just dnt know how to feel about my due date, i want to be strong and positive and not get upset, cuz i hate it when i get upset i feel like an idiot and tell myself to stop bein stupid... but at the same time i want to remember my angel that i carried for 12 weeks just feel confused

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:56 PM	#2
Mrs Doddy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 10,030	It's going to be a difficult day. I personally think it should be marked somehow. Have you and your h have a special place that you could go to? Maybe to release some balloons ?? My due date is a Sunday but am thinking that I will take the Monday off work too. I don't think that you will be able to blank it out if it's already on your mind now

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shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	I would say mark it however you feel you should, its a personal thing.I think you should try and do something special, as you may be upset that you didnt at a later time if you dont.It will be an upsetting day no matter how you go about it so i would say do whatever you feel you can, if thats just staying in with your oh thinking of them then thats ok.If you want to do something then maybe plant a tree or flower? the balloon release is also lovely, take a special day for you and your oh to have dinner or a day trip or even just writing a little letter to them? Hope your ok its alright to be upset

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Nov 6th, 2009, 18:09 PM	#4
bevan88 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: UK Posts: 229	My due date would be april fools day next year! typical of my entire story! However i would say mark it weather thats crying all day doing something special feeling sorry for yourself or just doing whatever feels right! Just go with your gut instinct there is no right or wrong just do what you feel is right!

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Nov 7th, 2009, 03:19 AM	#5
Las78 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,141	Hun, do whatever feels right for you, thats all that is important, take the day as it comes if you're not sure. I was quite numb on my EDD, took the day off work and just wondered aimlessly about the house really. I did do something special for my angel but without OH, I needed to be on my own and do my own thing, I feel bad about that now as it was his baby too but through out my loss and grieving I found comfort in being by myself and in my own little world. It is different for everyone hun, I hope the day is however you want it to be x

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Nov 7th, 2009, 21:11 PM	#6
Stacey_89 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Nottingham Posts: 1,021	Thanks everyone I think i will probz just stay in with OH, light some candles,have loads of cuddles and talks and probz a good cry ! Always seem to feel abit better after a good cry and let it all out, OH always says the right things to cheer me up after and end up giggling and wiping my runny mascara lol x

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