Chunky's Wife

Sorry to say that only a few days after finding this site I'm posting in this section.

I lost a baby at 7 weeks last summer and yesterday at 7 weeks started to spot, by yesterday evening I was cramping and bleeding properly.

We went to A & E and they have arranged a scan at our local EPAU for tomorrow.

I still have some 'cramping' pain and bleeding this morning.

We still have some hope, well you have to till you know for sure.

Obviously if this pregnancy isn't going to happen, we'll try again, and in the meantime I'll discuss with the doctor testing etc.. as this was my second pregnancy and my second m/c.

I'm trying to be very pragmatic (again) and hope that next time we have a different outcome.

*Just editing to ask has anyone had similar experiences and went on to have successful pregnancies from the 3rd/4th pregnancies**

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suzan

Oh hun, I hope the cramping and bleeding stops..
You and your little one will be in my thoughts and prayers

Keep us updated

Omi

So sorry to hear about what you're going through.. I jst had a d&c last friday so i have been in a similar situation, unfortunately.

In answer to your question there are several women on here who have experienced several mc and had healthy pregnancies and hopefully someone will post here and help you a little.

Stay strong sweetie and im the meantime Im sending you lots of good vibes and prayers for the 3 of you!!

Juzzy

Oh Hunny i am so sorry to hear this.

I had a miscarriage earlier this month and one in December 07.

I dont have much advice for you but, i know it is hard, try to remain strong.

doctordeesmrs

Good luck with your scan keep us updated

Chunky's Wife

Thanks Omi,

I read your posts at the weekend - I was going to reply to you, but by the time I'd read them you had been in hospital. My 1st m/c was managed with medication so I had no experience of what you went through.

It's a poo time, I'm not as upset as I was 1st time round, maybe as I know what to expect, but also as we hadn't told people (except a couple of very good friends). Last time I was terribly upset for my parents & DH Mum because they were all so pleased in the first place.

As I said I'm quite pragmatic - it's what life has dealt us right now.

Last time I found the thought of 'trying again' too much for a couple of months as I didn't feel emotionally stong enough to maybe lose another baby, but now it's happened I'm strong enough to cope.

My biggest worry right now is whether there is a reason why I have had 2 m/c in succession - I don't even know who to start asking for test etc...but once we have the scan tomorrow I'll ask them.

I hope you are doing ok, and recover mentally and physically quickly, and next time works out for you.

By the way my 'real' name is Helen (and I'm 34 - jeez not something I usually admit - so I understand your concerns about age etc)

And another by the way - I'm a Mum to Boo a beautiful Ragdoll X (just noticed your avatar) x

coccyx

Hope things turn out ok for you tomorrow. I am on pregnancy number 13, I have 3 daughters and a son due in May and have had 9 miscs. Think there are unfortunately many ladies on here who have had 1/2 miscarriages. I t is a horrible time but each one made me stronger and more determined. Take care.

Chunky's Wife

Yes it does.

Just noticed your location - whereabouts in Lincs are you?

Were your m/c before you had a successful pregnancy?

coccyx

I am south lincolnshire near grantham. I had 6 miscs, daughter, misc , daughter, misc, daughter,misc and now baby boy due in May. They found my hubby had some dodgy chromosomes in some of his sperm. If we got a 'good' sperm we were in with a chance. Found I conceived quite soon after each miscarriage. I am 41 so you are not too old!

Uvlollypop

i dont know if this helps at all but ive had a still birth and a mc and docs have said theres no reason why i wont conceive again, its something one in three pregnancys end in mc... fingers crossed for you..

x