Omi I just wanted to stop and send you hugs! I can't imagine how you feel but I hope you receive a blessing soon hun!

I am so sorry u r going thru all this
we are here for you hun

So sorry to hear what you are going through

Just want to say that I'm thinking of you and here if you'd like to talk huni. I know that words seem empty at the moment and nothing anyone can say will make any difference, but we are here for you sweetheart and we are thinking of you xxxxxxx

Hi Omi,

I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you are going through - I suffered a missed miscarriage nearly 4 weeks ago at 10 week and 2 days. When I went for my scan it showed the baby had died at 8 weeks and 3 days. Like you it would have been my first and I am 37, turning 38 later in the year but I just wanted to say to you that it WILL get better and it DOES get better. I bawled inconsolably for the first two weeks after I found out, I took 2 weeks off work too but now I am feeling very strong and very positive in myself and we have already started TTC again.

Hang in there Omi, it will get better.

Thanks for all the kind words and thought, its really helpfull!!!

I feel a bit better now, a few hours on having bawled my eyes out .. My main thought now is what to do next.. although I'll have an another scan next week I know (!) there's little hope and even the midwife said that is looks bad since i had a positive pregnancy test jan 7th so there's no way im only 6 weeks along.

My next question to you all then is, what to do next? I hate the feeling of having to wait for 'nature to take its course' as i'd like to move on as soon as possible and not to walk around with this dead baby inside of me and to still feel pregnant but not being pregnant. Should i opt for the operation and are there any side effects? Anyone have any advice?

I'm really sorry about your loss =[
hope you're ok

sorry to hear of your loss.

It is up to you lovely what you decide. It is your decision and yours only.

Mine was a completed miscarriage and came away relatively quickly (sorry tmi).

Please do contact me privately if it helps.

Love to you xx

So sorry you are having to go through this I have only ever had natural miscarriages so can not advise about a d/c. Try not to worry about your age, I'm 41 and have managed to conceive 4 times in past 5 years, so not too old. Take care