so I guess this is a miscarrige

kelly-pelynt · Oct 10th, 2009, 06:34 AM

I posted earlier in the week that I had got a BFP and was really scared as my youngest is only 7 mths and I didnt know how i,d cope with 4 children, but now I suppose nature is taking its course as ive woken today with extremly heavy bleeding and cramping so I assume this is a miscarrige, again I cant tell my husband as I never told him I was pregnant as I was scared how he would react so you are the only ones I can tell. It hadnt sunk in until now, while im sat here typing this ive just realised that ive lost my baby

sophster · Oct 10th, 2009, 07:23 AM

Hun

I am so sorry; please do tell your partner I am sure he will be supportive. If the bleeding gets to a stage where you feel it is too much; or you are at all worried please call a doctor or get yourself to a hospital pronto. We are here for you....

Soph

apple_20 · Oct 10th, 2009, 07:27 AM

I'm sorry to hear this i agree with soph tell your OH so he can be there for you it's quite a big thing to go through on your own and a big secret to keep.
also if the bleeding is very heavy go to the docs or ring NHS direct (if in UK) for advice x

MrsCrabs · Oct 11th, 2009, 03:39 AM

im sorry to hear this - it must be really hard for you.

i agree with the other girls tell your partner at a time like this you could use his support

wldgreen · Oct 12th, 2009, 19:46 PM

I am sorry for your loss. I don't know your hubby or the way he will react, but I have to agree with the rest of the girls. It is good to have support. I don't think anyone should go through a loss alone.

Oct 10th, 2009, 06:34 AM	#1
kelly-pelynt Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: cornwall Posts: 81	so I guess this is a miscarrige I posted earlier in the week that I had got a BFP and was really scared as my youngest is only 7 mths and I didnt know how i,d cope with 4 children, but now I suppose nature is taking its course as ive woken today with extremly heavy bleeding and cramping so I assume this is a miscarrige, again I cant tell my husband as I never told him I was pregnant as I was scared how he would react so you are the only ones I can tell. It hadnt sunk in until now, while im sat here typing this ive just realised that ive lost my baby

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Oct 10th, 2009, 07:23 AM	#2
sophster On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 391	Hun I am so sorry; please do tell your partner I am sure he will be supportive. If the bleeding gets to a stage where you feel it is too much; or you are at all worried please call a doctor or get yourself to a hospital pronto. We are here for you.... Soph

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Oct 10th, 2009, 07:27 AM	#3
apple_20 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: nottingham UK Posts: 927	I'm sorry to hear this i agree with soph tell your OH so he can be there for you it's quite a big thing to go through on your own and a big secret to keep. also if the bleeding is very heavy go to the docs or ring NHS direct (if in UK) for advice x

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Oct 11th, 2009, 03:39 AM	#4
MrsCrabs Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 407	im sorry to hear this - it must be really hard for you. i agree with the other girls tell your partner at a time like this you could use his support

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Oct 12th, 2009, 19:46 PM	#5
wldgreen Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United States Posts: 236	so sorry I am sorry for your loss. I don't know your hubby or the way he will react, but I have to agree with the rest of the girls. It is good to have support. I don't think anyone should go through a loss alone.

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