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Feb 6th, 2008, 02:12 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Wish I was pregnant (vent)
I really wish I was pregnant again.
I have to stop myself from buying more baby stuff. I hate touching my belly and realizing nothing is there anymore.
I miss how happy and excited I was pregnant.
I miss the way SO looked at me when I was pregnant.
I miss sharing the news with other people.
I miss feeling baby inside of me.
I miss imagining what baby would look like.
I miss thinking about how much fun it would be to stare into the baby's big eyes.
I keep having this urge to prepare things for baby, give birth, and cuddle. I still imagine what it would be like to carry baby in my arms and in the sling I already bought. 
I decided that I do want a baby within the next two years if SO and I are still together. I know people wil say I'm too young (21), but I can't help the way I feel.
Since I had a relatively late miscarriage I'm lactating. I dont mind lactating, I hate knowing that I won't have a baby to nurse.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 6th, 2008, 02:16 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | oh sweetie , i am very sorry ...but it's good to let your feelings out.
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Feb 6th, 2008, 02:53 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I know exactly how you feel. Im so sorry you are going through this. It is very good to get your feelings out. Ive been trying but most of the time I just feel to lost and empty to bother.
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Feb 6th, 2008, 12:31 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I also know how you feel, i was so happy during the time i was pregnant, me and my partner was looking forward to it so much.
And i often saying to him, darl i miss being pregnant so much. Just the feeling of looking forward to evry week.
My thoughts are with you, and i m sure alot of people have said to you what they have said to me " your young " , it doesn t help so much now but it is true  | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 6th, 2008, 13:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi, I am so sorry lovely, I am sending you a hug.
I know how you feel but I was not as far on as you xxx | | | | Status: Online
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Feb 6th, 2008, 13:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Im so sorry hun, I dont really know what to say. Ive never been in your situation but I can understand exactly how and why you feel the way you do.
And 21 isnt too young, so dont let anyone tell you that.
*massive hugs*
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Feb 6th, 2008, 14:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, I can only imagine what it must be like | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 6th, 2008, 15:42 PM
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im sorry to hear what you have been through feel the same i am 19 and lost both my babys early on thinking of you x | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 6th, 2008, 19:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | ^I'm thinking of you as well. | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 7th, 2008, 03:34 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hi honeybunch2k7,
I know how you feel. I loss my pride and joy Destiny just last week. And now I'm also lactating. I feel really empty inside. Everyone also tells me that I'm still young (22) and there is always next time. But it still hurts to know that I'm not pregnant right now and that I really want to be. My heart goes out to you. And I'm really sorry. | | | | Status: Offline
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