I have only posted here twice, once to announce we found out Christmas eve we were pregnant, and another time in someone else's post. Im posting now to say that on Thursday I was feeling a bit "off" I went to the doctor already knowing the baby was gone, knowing in my heart. The doctor did an internal and said there was growth and everything felt ok, but sent us for an ultrasound just in case. The next day we went, and I knew from the amount of time the tech was taking and not saying much my horrible gut feeling was right. The doctor came in and looked, then just said "get dressed I have to make a call". He came back and said there was no heart beat and the baby had not grown since our first ultrasound where we saw a heartbeat and were told we were 7 weeks and 5 days.


I went yesterday for my d&c and now I just feel so empty and lost inside. Im mad at myself and angry with my spouse for no real reason. I just want to hide and be alone.

The baby was a surprise but a wonderful and wanted one.

My bf says we can try again ASAP, and I want too. But Im so scared it will happen again.

I just want to wake up and find out this isnt real.

I am awfully sorry to hear about your loss. Please take good care of yourself!

So sorry to hear of your loss

I am so so sorry hun. It is ok to be angry, it is part of feeling loss.

i am very sorry. my thoughts are with you.

so sorry for your loss, dear.

am very sorry
Same thing happened to me.
I hope u get better

So sorry hun.

Thank you all for the support. It makes it numb the pain a little knowing Im not alone in this. And having others to talk too who have been through it.

I feel like such a fool. We got so ahead of ourselves and excited that we basically have everything for the baby. And now they are gone. I cant bare to look at it, and I cant bare to get rid of it.

I want to try again asap, but I just cant go through this again.

Hello lovely

I am sorry to hear your news. Sadly, there have been alot of ladies on B&B, including myself, that have recently miscarried. We know what you are going through.

I am 4 weeks on and I am not quite ready to 'start again' emotionally although I still want a child desperately.

I am taking each day at a time and see what life throws at me.

Have you spoken to your OH about how you feel? I guess he must be feeling tearful too?

Sending you a huge hug and hope you feel better soon. xxx