First of all, I'm very sorry for your loss.

Do you feel like he isn't grieving enough? That's how I feel towards my OH.

ah honey i am so so sorry for your lose, I know how you feel i had a m/c in Oct. Only you can decide when it is time to start ttc again. My doctor said that I would have to wait till I got my period first then after that we could ttc when we were ready, my prayers are with you and your bf.

Honestly I dont know why I was angry, its gone now. But it wasnt because he was not grieving enough, he has been so upset and so supportive. He has been all I could ask for and more. He is taking us on a vacation to just get us back on track. I think it was mostly just emotion I couldnt deal with and he was the person I was around the most, so he took the brunt of it. Which wasn't fair of me.

Im so sorry for your loss as well. Its so hard, I wish no one had to go through it. And there is just nothing that anyone can say to make it hurt any less.

Hi Firstly can I say I am very sorry for your loss.....

My story is very similiar to yours and I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. My husband and I too found out I was pregnant on Christmas eve and like you it was a nice surprise. I had a missed miscarriage where we went for the scan at 9weeks 4 days and there was no foetal heartbeat - I had no bleeding or loss of pregnancy symptoms. I had my d&c last thursday and felt very alone and also very angry with my husband even though he hadn't done anything. My husband has been fantastic and very supportive but he has not shown any emotion he has been able to do normal things like go to work which I resent while I am stuck at home. I just feel that this is a stage some women may go through and it just takes time to deal with things. My sister and my mum have both suffered miscarriages and have been very supportive but none of this can take away the feeling of loneliness I have felt for the past week.

Hopefully like me you can take some time out and get yourself back to normal emotionally and physically - I am also taking a holiday and trying to take advantage of my freedom for a little longer until I feel ready to try and conceive again.

I hope you have a nice vacation.....let me know how you are getting along and maybe we can help each other oversome the loneliness of this whole experience.

xx