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Feb 3rd, 2008, 18:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Did anyone miscarry bec heartbeat of lil one stopped? (Or know anyone who did?) Would like to read some responses to this as I would like to know what are the possibilities to face this again.
In my first pregnancy we heard the heartbeat for the first time at 6weeks and suddenly at 9 weeks I stopped feeling pregnant and got worried. Went in to see doc with DH and no heartbeat was found on the ultrasound and baby was measuring 7 weeks and a couple of days.
I have been freaking out... A LOT about this bec I am reading tons of stories about people that go thru this a lot  and after that have healthy babies.
I am scared!
I miscarried again for the second time but it was due something completely different from the first time. | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 3rd, 2008, 22:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sadly hun the baby stopping to grow is just the cruel start of it all & can happen at different stages/weeks
It is very worrying TTC again waiting for that BFP and then its auto panic mode 24/7. Natural!
Very worrying times but I know you will come out of all this smiling  Keep your head up chick x | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 3rd, 2008, 22:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hi Suzan. That happened to me in Nov, i bled at the begining but was told everything was fine at 7 weeks, the heartbeat was there (i have 2 wombs and was told the other womb was bleeding). Then i had another scan at 9 weeks and was told there was no heartbeat - I had to go for a D&C. I had another m/c 2 weeks ago, a natural one. I totally understand how you must be feeling but i truly think that one day it will happen. Its natural to panic incase it happens next time, you wouldnt be human if you didnt! Big hugs to you xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 4th, 2008, 00:57 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I just went through that exact same thing this weekend. I was suppose to be 10 weeks. But the baby stopped growing right after our first ultrasound where they said they were 7 weeks and 5 days.
Its utterly heart breaking. I didnt have any bleeding really or cramping..I just knew inside that the baby was gone.
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Feb 4th, 2008, 14:14 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | It happened to me too with my 2nd miscarriage. My other 4 miscarriages all happened a lot earlier. It's natural to panic - I still do. Despite what people say, you can't just forget about it and it will happen when you least expect it. However, I know that it will happen. I'm even thinking of visiting a phycic! Be strong. They are worth waiting for. | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 4th, 2008, 17:15 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | my baby stopped growing or it was at the growth of a 4 week fetous and i lost it at 9 weeks i have had 2 miscarriages and im so scared of it happening again! you will soon become a wonderful mum im sure keep your chin up i no its hard im so glad for these sites as they are helping me cope with my miscarriages i didnt really get the suppourt i needed from my partner keep smilin x | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 4th, 2008, 17:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | thats sad to hear sorry you had to go through that.  i recentley had a friend who reached 35 weeks of pregnancy and LO just gave up and heart stopped. the reason being was there was a prob with the placenta part of it had come away at some point and baby wasnt getting all he needed to survive. but its not down to anything she did or anything wrong with her, so chances of her having a normal healthy pregnancy next time around are high. and im sure you'll be the same. good luck with LO  | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 4th, 2008, 20:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hello lovely
Firstly, I am sorry to hear your news
I knew in my mind things werent right as I did not have any pregnancy symptoms just before New Year. I just thought it was all part of being pregnant.
After New Year, I got the brown spotting, slight cramps, then red blood. By this time, I could not be scanned so I dont know when my LO had stopped growing. I had a complete miscarriage at 9 weeks.
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Feb 5th, 2008, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted by kelly2903 thats sad to hear sorry you had to go through that.  i recentley had a friend who reached 35 weeks of pregnancy and LO just gave up and heart stopped. the reason being was there was a prob with the placenta part of it had come away at some point and baby wasnt getting all he needed to survive. but its not down to anything she did or anything wrong with her, so chances of her having a normal healthy pregnancy next time around are high. and im sure you'll be the same. good luck with LO  | Am sorry. My heart goes with her. That should be hard  | | | | Status: Offline
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Feb 5th, 2008, 05:54 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Am sorry everyone who went thru this horrible experience as well.  | | | | Status: Offline
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