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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 03:17 AM   #1
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Help me cope - need a playlist


I just found out that my baby died sometime at 10 weeks. I'm about to miscarry, or so I'm supposed to. I'm looking for some songs that might help me cope. I'm an atheist, so scrape the God- and Jesus-related things, I can't make sense of it. Any suggestions? Only thing that comes into my mind is a German song Glashaus, Trost (Es tut weh), meant to post a link but apparently I'm not allowed to, sorry. You can google it, it brings up a YouTube video. The title means "Comfort (It hurts)"


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 03:23 AM   #2
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hey hun didnt want to read and run but im so sorry for your loss....the only stuff i could listen to was hard rock with screaming people "singing" so i couldnt understand the words...lol x


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 04:15 AM   #3
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Thanks


Yeah, I have a couple of these too


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 12:20 PM   #4
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When I had my m/c two months ago I found a sonf Ill be there by faith hill seemed to fit and the JLS beat it song - ok that was more about a break up but most of the words were about a breaking heart



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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 15:16 PM   #5
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Sorry to hear about your loss. Don't have any songs to suggest just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 15:23 PM   #6
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So sorry for your loss hun! I hate that your hurting! I always listen to the song "Time for me to Fly" by REO Speedwagon it has helped me through so many bad times that it's my feel good song.



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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 15:24 PM   #7
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for me it was loud, rock noise in the car driving up and down the motorway that gave me an hour or so to cry, scream etc etc on my own away from hubby. hope you find a way to get thro this difficult time hun. xxxxxx


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 15:59 PM   #8
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im so sorry for you loss, i hope you find some words of comfort on here and in your songs
i felt this song related to me at the time of my 4th m/c....me and my oh were having a hard time coping and i felt he didn't understand what i was going thro....he was just calling me moody and saying to get over it....nice hey?! some men really have noooo idea
anyway turns out he thought he was helping me to move on.....but it's
daneil merriweather - i cant do this by myself....

http://watch-music-videos-online.blo...lf-daniel.html

xxxxx


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 17:33 PM   #9
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I AGREE WITH MRS DODDY, FAITH HILLS SONGS BEAUTIFUL,BUT I ALSO THINK THE SONG FROM CITY OF ANGELS(MEG RYAN)THINK ITS CALLED IN THE ARMS OF THEE ANGELS? THINK ITS VERY APPROPRIATE!!


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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 17:40 PM   #10
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Laura!!!!! This songs so good!! I love it!!


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Originally Posted by lauraperrysan View Post
im so sorry for you loss, i hope you find some words of comfort on here and in your songs
i felt this song related to me at the time of my 4th m/c....me and my oh were having a hard time coping and i felt he didn't understand what i was going thro....he was just calling me moody and saying to get over it....nice hey?! some men really have noooo idea
anyway turns out he thought he was helping me to move on.....but it's
daneil merriweather - i cant do this by myself....

http://watch-music-videos-online.blo...lf-daniel.html

xxxxx
HI LAURA
LOVE THIS SONG,MAKES ME CRY.IT DID BEFORE MY LOSS,BUT NOW SEEMS TO MEAN SOMETHING TO ME!!
HOW ARE YOU LATELY?
HOPE YOU ARE WELL


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