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PinkyDink · Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:08 PM

I just had my second miscarriage last week.
I bleed lightly for 2 days and I've been spotting for almost a week and half (6 days before I bleed).
I went to the hospital and my HcG level was less then 1.
I would be 6 weeks today.

After the first one a year ago I could tell myself it was natural. Obviously something went wrong and nature was just taking care of it. But now I'm wondering if it something about me.
My symptoms haven't faded yet and now they just want to make me cry.
I'm so depressed and I hate it.

My first prenatal appointment is February 4th.
It's with a doctor I've never seen. I know I need to still go, but I wish I didn't have to talk.

kelly2903 · Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:12 PM

hi im sorry to ear about your loss. if you dont no what to say to this doctor write down some need to no facts that will help you out mentally. and im sure they will answer them all and take it very seriously.its their job to be understanding

maddiwatts19 · Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:15 PM

Hey hun

im so sorry about your loss!

i had a miscarraige a little while ago, and when i went to the nurse, she told me that some women have oa few in their lifetimes. its just something that happens! dont get worried and think its you unecisserily.

xx

Dee_H · Jan 23rd, 2008, 09:11 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

**Vickie** · Jan 23rd, 2008, 09:12 AM

So sorry to hear of your losses

Alison · Jan 23rd, 2008, 14:43 PM

If you don't feel ready to talk, then don't. We all deal with these things differently and when you're ready I'm sure you'll let it all out. I blubbed and talked about it non-stop but that's just me and my midwife told me some people, like you, prefer to deal with things privately. I agree it's perhaps a good idea to go to the appointment with some goals in mind and if they ask you questions that you're not ready or emotionally strong enough to cope with, be prepared to say so. It's your body and whilst we sometimes have to be brave to deal with the physical after-effects and follow-up from MCs our emotional recovery is individual. You take care. We're all here to support you!

Rumpskin · Jan 23rd, 2008, 16:58 PM

I am so very sorry for your news

Always&4ever · Jan 24th, 2008, 06:33 AM

I'm sorry to hear your news hun *hugs*

poppy · Jan 27th, 2008, 05:18 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

xxx

Katrin1212 · Jan 28th, 2008, 05:05 AM

I know how you feel babe, been there myself a number of times....
Take care of yourself and take your time before talking to the doctor...
Time helps..trust me on that one
Don't give up...

Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:08 PM	#1
PinkyDink Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Southern California Posts: 17	New to this board I just had my second miscarriage last week. I bleed lightly for 2 days and I've been spotting for almost a week and half (6 days before I bleed). I went to the hospital and my HcG level was less then 1. I would be 6 weeks today. After the first one a year ago I could tell myself it was natural. Obviously something went wrong and nature was just taking care of it. But now I'm wondering if it something about me. My symptoms haven't faded yet and now they just want to make me cry. I'm so depressed and I hate it. My first prenatal appointment is February 4th. It's with a doctor I've never seen. I know I need to still go, but I wish I didn't have to talk.

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Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:12 PM	#2
kelly2903 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: west yorkshire uk Posts: 3,492	hi im sorry to ear about your loss. if you dont no what to say to this doctor write down some need to no facts that will help you out mentally. and im sure they will answer them all and take it very seriously.its their job to be understanding

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Jan 22nd, 2008, 18:15 PM	#3
maddiwatts19 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 4,835	Hey hun im so sorry about your loss! i had a miscarraige a little while ago, and when i went to the nurse, she told me that some women have oa few in their lifetimes. its just something that happens! dont get worried and think its you unecisserily. xx

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Jan 23rd, 2008, 09:11 AM	#4
Dee_H Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: NS Canada Posts: 1,859	I am so sorry for your loss.

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Jan 23rd, 2008, 09:12 AM	#5
Vickie Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 75,678	So sorry to hear of your losses

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Jan 23rd, 2008, 14:43 PM	#6
Alison Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Midlands Posts: 49	If you don't feel ready to talk, then don't. We all deal with these things differently and when you're ready I'm sure you'll let it all out. I blubbed and talked about it non-stop but that's just me and my midwife told me some people, like you, prefer to deal with things privately. I agree it's perhaps a good idea to go to the appointment with some goals in mind and if they ask you questions that you're not ready or emotionally strong enough to cope with, be prepared to say so. It's your body and whilst we sometimes have to be brave to deal with the physical after-effects and follow-up from MCs our emotional recovery is individual. You take care. We're all here to support you!

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Jan 23rd, 2008, 16:58 PM	#7
Rumpskin Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7,261	I am so very sorry for your news

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Jan 24th, 2008, 06:33 AM	#8
Always&4ever Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Stoke-on-Trent Posts: 9,507	I'm sorry to hear your news hun hugs

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Jan 27th, 2008, 05:18 AM	#9
poppy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,947	I am so sorry for your loss. xxx

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Jan 28th, 2008, 05:05 AM	#10
Katrin1212 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Nottingham, UK Posts: 16	I know how you feel babe, been there myself a number of times.... Take care of yourself and take your time before talking to the doctor... Time helps..trust me on that one Don't give up...

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