Just found out I was having a baby...by losing it

Shara88 · Aug 18th, 2009, 18:30 PM

My baby just died. I was over two weeks late for my period and I took a pregnancy test, BFN. Well, a few days later I started to bleed, and believe it or not I just passed the baby. The saddest thing for me is this makes 8 pregnancies. 5 miscarraiges, one Still birth, and 2 healthy babies. My husband isn't worried, he says, "we'll try again", but that's not the point. I felt pregnant, too. I feel so guilty. Right before my Period was due I had some beer, 4 of them. And my DH don't make love often, but coincidentally, we did the day before I started bleeding. I know the baby had probably already died, but I can't help but feel so torn up. I don't want to tell anyone about it, but I want to, so bad. And I want to cry.

I guess I feel really silly, too, because I didn't even know I was pregnant until today. I thought I might be, but the test was neg.

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sniff**

EternalRose · Aug 18th, 2009, 18:39 PM

Hun, I just wanted to send you hugs, and that I am really sorry for your loss. I cant imagine how hard it must be for you right now. Be kind to yourself, and give yourself lots of TLC. xxx

DiddyDons · Aug 18th, 2009, 18:41 PM

I am so sorry

x x x

AS1 · Aug 18th, 2009, 19:08 PM

so sorry

Bunnipowder · Aug 18th, 2009, 19:09 PM

Im so sorry

todteach · Aug 18th, 2009, 19:33 PM

So sorry for your loss. xox

wish2bmama · Aug 19th, 2009, 00:14 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. XX

charlie_v_o · Aug 19th, 2009, 04:45 AM

So sorry to hear this hun, i had a MC last week and didnt no i was pregnant either, its really hard i know... Sending lots of hugs xxx

mightyspu · Aug 19th, 2009, 06:03 AM

So sorry to hear about your loss. Please try not to beat yourself up to much about the beer etc, It's easy enough to say, but hard enough to do though isn't it??? I really hope you get lucky soon. Put your feet up today, and if you want to cry, cry! I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better, but I know there's nothing.

K&H · Aug 19th, 2009, 06:09 AM

sorry for your loss.

Aug 18th, 2009, 18:30 PM	#1
Shara88 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Eastern OR Posts: 79	Just found out I was having a baby...by losing it My baby just died. I was over two weeks late for my period and I took a pregnancy test, BFN. Well, a few days later I started to bleed, and believe it or not I just passed the baby. The saddest thing for me is this makes 8 pregnancies. 5 miscarraiges, one Still birth, and 2 healthy babies. My husband isn't worried, he says, "we'll try again", but that's not the point. I felt pregnant, too. I feel so guilty. Right before my Period was due I had some beer, 4 of them. And my DH don't make love often, but coincidentally, we did the day before I started bleeding. I know the baby had probably already died, but I can't help but feel so torn up. I don't want to tell anyone about it, but I want to, so bad. And I want to cry. I guess I feel really silly, too, because I didn't even know I was pregnant until today. I thought I might be, but the test was neg. sniff

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Aug 18th, 2009, 18:39 PM	#2
EternalRose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 5,739	Hun, I just wanted to send you hugs, and that I am really sorry for your loss. I cant imagine how hard it must be for you right now. Be kind to yourself, and give yourself lots of TLC. xxx

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Aug 18th, 2009, 18:41 PM	#3
DiddyDons Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Sunderland, UK	I am so sorry x x x

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Aug 18th, 2009, 19:08 PM	#4
AS1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 397	so sorry

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Aug 18th, 2009, 19:09 PM	#5
Bunnipowder Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,456	Im so sorry

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Aug 18th, 2009, 19:33 PM	#6
todteach Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 2,436	So sorry for your loss. xox

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Aug 19th, 2009, 00:14 AM	#7
wish2bmama Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2,365	I am so sorry for your loss. XX

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Aug 19th, 2009, 04:45 AM	#8
charlie_v_o Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Devon Posts: 49	So sorry to hear this hun, i had a MC last week and didnt no i was pregnant either, its really hard i know... Sending lots of hugs xxx

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Aug 19th, 2009, 06:03 AM	#9
mightyspu Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: West Berkshire Posts: 11,298	So sorry to hear about your loss. Please try not to beat yourself up to much about the beer etc, It's easy enough to say, but hard enough to do though isn't it??? I really hope you get lucky soon. Put your feet up today, and if you want to cry, cry! I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better, but I know there's nothing.

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Aug 19th, 2009, 06:09 AM	#10
K&H Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 196	sorry for your loss.

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