i feel exactly the same poppy! i had a miscarriage 5 weeks or so ago at 9 n a half weeks and have just started my 1st period. Me and my oh are going to ttc this month so i'm keeping my fingers crossed this time however i am so scared that it will just keep happening. im not very posotive i feel deep down that i will have another one next time XXX

Don't worry Holly. I think everyone who has had a miscarriage feels the same. Most go on to have healthy and happy pregnancies and for those who do suffer recurrent miscarriages (only about 1%), there is lots that can be done these days. I think we just have to face our fears and try again and hope this time it is ok. Good luck Holly xxx

I agree with everyone here. It is tough and life is a worry in general, but we have to stay positive and focussed. Things will be good for us. We deserve it.

Hi Poppy

My heart goes out to you and everyone in this forum.

I miscarried at the weekend at 9 weeks. I have been told today to wait 3 months before ttc again. I cannot think about trying again for a while. It is too painful.

We must all remain optimistic about our futures. I can only hope that one day, I will have a precious bundle of joy in my arms.

Lots of love and luck ttc.

xxx