3 mmc in a row anyone?

toby2 · Jul 4th, 2009, 03:19 AM

just that really-have had 2mmc in the last 8 months and am due for my scan on thursday,am in a right mess,head is all over the place and i just want to know if anyone has had 3mmc in a row?i havnt read loads about them because i cant face it but i think i hav read somewhere that they are less common than a 'normal' mc?i dont know what to think but wondered if anyone would mind sharing if they have
thank you
x

Rumpskin · Jul 4th, 2009, 04:50 AM

Hey sweety

So sorry you are going through a rough time.

I have had one completed, one missed and a chemical. Have not really done much research into mmc but I know that if you have had 3 in a row regardless of what they class them as, you should be eligible for testing.

Thinking of you xxx

MrsJD · Jul 4th, 2009, 05:17 AM

Hey you!

Sorry for your losses.

I've had 5 in a row

, They started investigations after my 2nd only because I had my thyroid removed. My first was a MMC @ 9 weeks, second was a chemical but confirmed by the EPU.

XXX

Widger · Jul 4th, 2009, 05:37 AM

I've had 3 mcs in a row but only one mmc. After testing they said nothing wrong.... hmm I'm not so sure but there you go.

I hope you are ok. Are you having a scan to see if everything ok with this pregnancy? Sorry if not, just didn't understand post.

toby2 · Jul 4th, 2009, 05:44 AM

just normal 12wk scan-wont give an early one unless three m/c-to be honest i am not sure what the point of my post is, i am just going slowly mental with it and find other peoples stories help. I have tried everything to get an early scan bar lying about cramps and bleeding and they wont give me one, tried to book a private one but the only place in driving distance the woman is on holiday, just rang the on call midwifes but they are busy. I just feel really isolated with all this, i am not have friends and family around me but they just dont seem to help despite their best efforts, i supposed i am just very scared. and the whole thing seems cruel-the fact that i cant get a early scan, the fact that i have too wait 13wks to find out i have had a mmc each time and the fact that it feels like it is happening again and there is nothing i can do but wait

Rumpskin · Jul 4th, 2009, 05:46 AM

Widger · Jul 4th, 2009, 05:49 AM

I am sure that everything will be fine this time. There are lots of good stories out there Toby2. I can completely accept that you are feeling anxious about it all because I know what it feels like to not enjoy getting pregnant in some ways because you feel that something will go wrong. Hopefully this time it won't xx

I think it is ridiculous that your EPU/Doc have not put you forward for a scan before this date. It is really unfair that it depends on who the consultant is in your area and where you live. To be told that after 3 is only when they will look after you is so unfair. I am lucky in some ways that I've had 3 now as I know they will look after me, but they class 2 mc as recurrent mcs in my area.

Please let me know how you get on xx

MrsJD · Jul 4th, 2009, 06:04 AM

Oh Toby2, I miss read your thread hun! SORRY

Easier said than done but try and relax about your scan, I do think it's shocking the EPU didn't scan you earlier from reassurance.

Out of my 5 MC only 1 was a MMC.

Again, apologises.

XXX

toby2 · Jul 4th, 2009, 08:17 AM

no appology needed,like i say the ost really wasnt very clear-i didnt take what you said as anything but kind anyway
xxx

Chilli · Jul 4th, 2009, 15:21 PM

Toby - I so completely understand how you are feeling - it must be the most worrying time for you! Just keep up the positive mantra and try to remember that if you stay positive it can only do good, but if you allow the fear to take over it could affect you or the baby even if it just means you have a reall squeeler in 6 months - you don't want that! You want a lovely relaxed, chilled baby so stay as calm as you can. I know it's so hard but you've got to try to believe - and you can give me this same talk in a few months!!! Sending you the strength to believe that you and your baby are going to be just fine

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toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	3 mmc in a row anyone? just that really-have had 2mmc in the last 8 months and am due for my scan on thursday,am in a right mess,head is all over the place and i just want to know if anyone has had 3mmc in a row?i havnt read loads about them because i cant face it but i think i hav read somewhere that they are less common than a 'normal' mc?i dont know what to think but wondered if anyone would mind sharing if they have thank you x

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Jul 4th, 2009, 04:50 AM	#2
Rumpskin Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7,261	Hey sweety So sorry you are going through a rough time. I have had one completed, one missed and a chemical. Have not really done much research into mmc but I know that if you have had 3 in a row regardless of what they class them as, you should be eligible for testing. Thinking of you xxx

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MrsJD Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 7,889	Hey you! Sorry for your losses. I've had 5 in a row , They started investigations after my 2nd only because I had my thyroid removed. My first was a MMC @ 9 weeks, second was a chemical but confirmed by the EPU. XXX
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Jul 4th, 2009, 05:37 AM	#4
Widger Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: England Posts: 3,476	I've had 3 mcs in a row but only one mmc. After testing they said nothing wrong.... hmm I'm not so sure but there you go. I hope you are ok. Are you having a scan to see if everything ok with this pregnancy? Sorry if not, just didn't understand post.

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Jul 4th, 2009, 05:44 AM	#5
toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	just normal 12wk scan-wont give an early one unless three m/c-to be honest i am not sure what the point of my post is, i am just going slowly mental with it and find other peoples stories help. I have tried everything to get an early scan bar lying about cramps and bleeding and they wont give me one, tried to book a private one but the only place in driving distance the woman is on holiday, just rang the on call midwifes but they are busy. I just feel really isolated with all this, i am not have friends and family around me but they just dont seem to help despite their best efforts, i supposed i am just very scared. and the whole thing seems cruel-the fact that i cant get a early scan, the fact that i have too wait 13wks to find out i have had a mmc each time and the fact that it feels like it is happening again and there is nothing i can do but wait

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Jul 4th, 2009, 05:49 AM	#7
Widger Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: England Posts: 3,476	I am sure that everything will be fine this time. There are lots of good stories out there Toby2. I can completely accept that you are feeling anxious about it all because I know what it feels like to not enjoy getting pregnant in some ways because you feel that something will go wrong. Hopefully this time it won't xx I think it is ridiculous that your EPU/Doc have not put you forward for a scan before this date. It is really unfair that it depends on who the consultant is in your area and where you live. To be told that after 3 is only when they will look after you is so unfair. I am lucky in some ways that I've had 3 now as I know they will look after me, but they class 2 mc as recurrent mcs in my area. Please let me know how you get on xx

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Jul 4th, 2009, 06:04 AM	#8
MrsJD Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 7,889	Oh Toby2, I miss read your thread hun! SORRY Easier said than done but try and relax about your scan, I do think it's shocking the EPU didn't scan you earlier from reassurance. Out of my 5 MC only 1 was a MMC. Again, apologises. XXX
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Jul 4th, 2009, 08:17 AM	#9
toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	no appology needed,like i say the ost really wasnt very clear-i didnt take what you said as anything but kind anyway xxx

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Jul 4th, 2009, 15:21 PM	#10
Chilli Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Wilts Posts: 1,544	Toby - I so completely understand how you are feeling - it must be the most worrying time for you! Just keep up the positive mantra and try to remember that if you stay positive it can only do good, but if you allow the fear to take over it could affect you or the baby even if it just means you have a reall squeeler in 6 months - you don't want that! You want a lovely relaxed, chilled baby so stay as calm as you can. I know it's so hard but you've got to try to believe - and you can give me this same talk in a few months!!! Sending you the strength to believe that you and your baby are going to be just fine

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