Another angel...

Peach Blossom · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:18 AM

I had a scan today that confirmed I've lost another angel... I was 7 weeks pg and had done 7 tests so there was no doubt in my mind. I started bleeding heavily on Sunday though. At least this time I don't have to go in for an erpc... It doesn't make the loss any less painful though.

I feel numb. Last time I was so desperate to try again as soon as possible. All I could think about was getting pregnant again. Right now though I feel numb. I have an overwhelming feeling of sadness, but its like its locked away, I can't access it. I feel like all hope has gone.

Chilli · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:23 AM

You know how I feel and it's SOO crappy that we're both here again!!!

Peach Blossom · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:24 AM

I can't beleive it... and so soon...

Milliesun · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:24 AM

i am so sorry hun. I am also in the same situation. This time last week was rushed to hospital with heavy bleeding and cramps. I was 11 weeks....

I spend the first two days feeling very numb and strange. The tears and sadness came the third day...

This is my second m/c this year, but I am determinded to stay positive and as soon as my body returns to normal we will be trying again.

Third time lucky!!

Take care and remember you are not alone.

Millie
x

Peach Blossom · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:26 AM

Thanks Millie. So sorry for your losses.

I have booked an appointment at the Zhai Clinic tomorrow and hope that they will be able to help rebalance my Qi and whatever else I need rebalancing to make sure that this doesn't happen again.

toby2 · Jul 1st, 2009, 10:35 AM

lots of love peach

I had a couple of sessions of reflexology after my 2nd m/c-it was a nice experience and i did gt preg again pretty quick,dont know yet whether it has helped with the mc situation but i did enjoy it.
do your hospital offer counselling?i found that helpful although i had to wait 6 weeks for it
x

Peach Blossom · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:05 AM

They did offer me counselling and I will think about it. I just don't want yet another person telling me how common it is. Or telling me I will get pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy, its just a matter of time... I just don't have the energy. I may change my mind and the EPU said that I could call them anytime to ask for counselling, which was nice.

borntobeamum · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:10 AM

No words as nothing I can say will help you.

tinadecember · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:13 AM

so sorry,

i know nothing any of us say will make you feel any better.. but if it does help were always here x

Peach Blossom · Jul 1st, 2009, 11:15 AM

Thank you. x

Jul 1st, 2009, 08:18 AM	#1
Peach Blossom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,994	Another angel... I had a scan today that confirmed I've lost another angel... I was 7 weeks pg and had done 7 tests so there was no doubt in my mind. I started bleeding heavily on Sunday though. At least this time I don't have to go in for an erpc... It doesn't make the loss any less painful though. I feel numb. Last time I was so desperate to try again as soon as possible. All I could think about was getting pregnant again. Right now though I feel numb. I have an overwhelming feeling of sadness, but its like its locked away, I can't access it. I feel like all hope has gone.

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Chilli Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Wilts Posts: 1,544	You know how I feel and it's SOO crappy that we're both here again!!!

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Jul 1st, 2009, 08:24 AM	#3
Peach Blossom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,994	I can't beleive it... and so soon...

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Jul 1st, 2009, 08:24 AM	#4
Milliesun Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: West Midlands Posts: 55	i am so sorry hun. I am also in the same situation. This time last week was rushed to hospital with heavy bleeding and cramps. I was 11 weeks.... I spend the first two days feeling very numb and strange. The tears and sadness came the third day... This is my second m/c this year, but I am determinded to stay positive and as soon as my body returns to normal we will be trying again. Third time lucky!! Take care and remember you are not alone. Millie x

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Jul 1st, 2009, 08:26 AM	#5
Peach Blossom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,994	Thanks Millie. So sorry for your losses. I have booked an appointment at the Zhai Clinic tomorrow and hope that they will be able to help rebalance my Qi and whatever else I need rebalancing to make sure that this doesn't happen again.

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Jul 1st, 2009, 10:35 AM	#6
toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	lots of love peach I had a couple of sessions of reflexology after my 2nd m/c-it was a nice experience and i did gt preg again pretty quick,dont know yet whether it has helped with the mc situation but i did enjoy it. do your hospital offer counselling?i found that helpful although i had to wait 6 weeks for it x

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Jul 1st, 2009, 11:05 AM	#7
Peach Blossom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,994	They did offer me counselling and I will think about it. I just don't want yet another person telling me how common it is. Or telling me I will get pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy, its just a matter of time... I just don't have the energy. I may change my mind and the EPU said that I could call them anytime to ask for counselling, which was nice.

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Jul 1st, 2009, 11:10 AM	#8
borntobeamum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Glasgow Posts: 489	No words as nothing I can say will help you.

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tinadecember Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,467	so sorry, i know nothing any of us say will make you feel any better.. but if it does help were always here x

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Jul 1st, 2009, 11:15 AM	#10
Peach Blossom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,994	Thank you. x

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