EVIL words my BOSS said to me after CHEMICAL PREGNANCY

diane60f · Jun 30th, 2009, 19:18 PM

She said, "You wont need time off, (like the last time mmc at 11wks) this time you're lucky it'll be just like a bad period."

can you believe the audacity of this woman? she has one child and has gone through a miscarriage at 8 weeks herself.

how can she be so concerned with staffing when she has an idea of my recurrent miscarriages.

what a b*tch.

the first sign of a BFP this next time...i'm QUITTING or going on a LEAVE OF ABSENCE. not to spite her the the company but b/c i feel that place is a contributing factor in my STRESSS and ANGER and that cannot be good for the baby.

Disgusted,
Diane

MrsJD · Jun 30th, 2009, 19:29 PM

What a fucken bitch!!!!!! God people like this do my head right in.

You should have said to her " you're a bad period" TOTAL PAIN!

XX

sam's mum · Jun 30th, 2009, 19:35 PM

I'm so sorry you have to put up with such a horrible, insensitive boss

And she has children??

Is there someone you can complain to?

I'm so sorry for your loss

x

TTCbaby1 · Jun 30th, 2009, 19:41 PM

Hi hun, I am very sorry about your loss, Hope you have a happy & healthy pregnancy & beyond the next time around hug

As for your boss, she is very inconciderate, & has a child of her own & also knows what it is llike. You should try complaining to someone higher than her.

diane60f · Jun 30th, 2009, 20:16 PM

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Originally Posted by MrsJD

What a fucken bitch!!!!!! God people like this do my head right in.

You should have said to her " you're a bad period" TOTAL PAIN!

XX

I think my mouth dropped wide open when she said this to me.. i thought i was dreaming.

i didn't even know WHAT to say to her.
i felt hated, like i wanted to leave work 'sick'.but i couldn't pull myself to do it.

diane60f · Jun 30th, 2009, 20:18 PM

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Originally Posted by TTCbaby1

Hi hun, I am very sorry about your loss, Hope you have a happy & healthy pregnancy & beyond the next time around hug

As for your boss, she is very inconciderate, & has a child of her own & also knows what it is llike. You should try complaining to someone higher than her.

Thank you, ladie. yeah i couldn't believe the words coming from her mouth...she is even trying to get pregnant again...i expected her to be a little compassionate about the subject..but NADA.

not even a wink of compassion or empathy.

i WISH this company cared about its employees...i know if i complain my boss would retaliate and find a way to fire me.

diane60f · Jun 30th, 2009, 20:18 PM

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Originally Posted by TTCbaby1

Hi hun, I am very sorry about your loss, Hope you have a happy & healthy pregnancy & beyond the next time around hug

As for your boss, she is very inconciderate, & has a child of her own & also knows what it is llike. You should try complaining to someone higher than her.

i can't stand the bitch now.

AtomicPink · Jul 1st, 2009, 02:56 AM

What a bint. It is not her position to say ANYTHING on the matter. And the way she speaks as if she knows it all...
In fact shes talking pish, because i too had a chemical but it didn't shift straight away, and i did have a few 'heavy' days and needed time off work to get myself together again physically and emotionally.

Id feking smack her. I have a boss like that, maybe not intentionally as nasty though, but she does get her beak in everywhere. X x x

tinadecember · Jul 1st, 2009, 03:17 AM

that would be exactly what my boss would say.. how insensitive. why doesnt she try putting herself in your shoes at the minute. have a bit of compassion!!! sorry youre going through all this xx

borntobeamum · Jul 1st, 2009, 05:21 AM

OMG how insensitive, no matter when you loose your baby it still hurts.

Especially as she has had an MC.

Im afraid I would have punched her......

Jun 30th, 2009, 19:18 PM	#1
diane60f Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,081	EVIL words my BOSS said to me after CHEMICAL PREGNANCY She said, "You wont need time off, (like the last time mmc at 11wks) this time you're lucky it'll be just like a bad period." can you believe the audacity of this woman? she has one child and has gone through a miscarriage at 8 weeks herself. how can she be so concerned with staffing when she has an idea of my recurrent miscarriages. what a b*tch. the first sign of a BFP this next time...i'm QUITTING or going on a LEAVE OF ABSENCE. not to spite her the the company but b/c i feel that place is a contributing factor in my STRESSS and ANGER and that cannot be good for the baby. Disgusted, Diane

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sam's mum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Hampshire, UK Posts: 11,404	I'm so sorry you have to put up with such a horrible, insensitive boss And she has children?? Is there someone you can complain to? I'm so sorry for your loss x

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TTCbaby1 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 18	Hi hun, I am very sorry about your loss, Hope you have a happy & healthy pregnancy & beyond the next time around hug As for your boss, she is very inconciderate, & has a child of her own & also knows what it is llike. You should try complaining to someone higher than her.

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AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,126	What a bint. It is not her position to say ANYTHING on the matter. And the way she speaks as if she knows it all... In fact shes talking pish, because i too had a chemical but it didn't shift straight away, and i did have a few 'heavy' days and needed time off work to get myself together again physically and emotionally. Id feking smack her. I have a boss like that, maybe not intentionally as nasty though, but she does get her beak in everywhere. X x x

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tinadecember Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,467	that would be exactly what my boss would say.. how insensitive. why doesnt she try putting herself in your shoes at the minute. have a bit of compassion!!! sorry youre going through all this xx

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borntobeamum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Glasgow Posts: 489	OMG how insensitive, no matter when you loose your baby it still hurts. Especially as she has had an MC. Im afraid I would have punched her......

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