Lara18

Well im 5 weeks pregnant again now but a year and a half ago I was pregnant, but i didnt know until I lost my baby. I just remember the pain both physical and emotional that it caused. I was only about 3-4 weeks gone, but the fact that I could have been a mother was so so painful, I was a wreck for a long time. I took an overdose infact, was on anti d's for a while and had conselling. What made it worse was that I had recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and immediatly started another relationship, getting pregnant probs the first time we slept together. All this at 17 and I still at school was just to awful to deal with.
When I lost that baby everyone around me kept saying that it was for the best and that I was'nt ready anyway. I know they were only trying to help but what they were saying hurt so much, I know that if I had been allowed to carry that baby I would have kept her, sure I was a kid but that doesnt mean she would have been loved any less. Thanks for looking xxxxx

So being 5 weeks preggers now is just so exciting, my boyfriend is a bit dubious about being a dad at 19, but he will come round, just wait till he hears the heart beat or see's his baby at my first scan. I just know it'll be love at first sight.

staceymy

hey... i had a miscarriage at 17 too. i found out i was pregnant on the sunday and i lost it on the tuesday but it was heartbreaking. me and my partner were trying and it had took us 9 months.
i got no support and me and my partner found it very hard. my family seem to had forgot about it about a week after it happend and they thought i was 'over it'. i went off the rails and was stopping out all the time.

so after a few months we decided to buy our first home.
we started trying straight after the m/c and we concieved 2 years later. we are now very happy and we will have ben together 4 years at end of jan. bump is due on the 4th jan.
i think the m/c happened for a reason (i no its hard to think that at the time)... now we have a brand new house and car... 3 gorgeous dogs and our relationship is so stable. we are also alot better off with our money.

congrats on your pregnancy and i hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.
x x x

poppy

I am really sorry to hear about your miscarriages. It is good that you both have remained strong throughout.

Congratulations about your pregnancies, I hope you both have happy and healthy nine months.

Wobbles

You may have been young but what an awful thing to say to you You were young not another species without feelings. Shocking!

Sorry to see of your loss