Started miscarrying today? - Page 2

L-C · Jun 26th, 2009, 14:24 PM

Thank you so much, I was seven weeks and I unfortunately was able to tell exactly what had been passed and so I am relatively confident myself. I just thought that they would be a little more supportive really. I ended up having to tell my Mum that I was pregnant and not pregnant in the same day as she is the only person I kow who has had them.

Do any of you know how long you should wait to recover, although I feel lost not being pregnant I know I want to try aagin.

xxx

mayflower · Jun 26th, 2009, 15:54 PM

It is not necessary to wait to recover. The reason they ask you to wait a month is to help nhs with dating a subsequent pg! If you are ready then your body will be ready. I found that what I thought was an old wives tale was absolutely true - I was quite obviously very much more fertile in the first ovuation after the m/c (ie 2-3weeks later). But if you want a littel time, and want to know that your body is defo back to normal then maybe wait for your next normal period then try again?
xx

Caroline · Jun 26th, 2009, 16:08 PM

So sorry for your loss hun. Life is pretty cruel.

I was given a scan even thought I had passed lots of tissue/clots to make sure I had passed everything & didn't need a D&C.

I was however given sod all support/advise from the hospital & I am indebted to the girls on here for there support & advice.

You need to avoid having sex until the bleeding has stopped. If you get any really heavy bleeding over the next couple of days then get yourself to A & E & push for a scan.

Once bleeding has stopped it is ok to resume sex. Some Dr's say to wait, but is really only for dating purposes, if you fall pg again.

We wanted to start ttc straight away, but it hasn't happend for us yet, but I'm really not as upset as I thought I would be, and in many ways I'm glad. I am now feeling ready to get pg again so hoping for a bfp next cycle. (Not holding out too much this cycle as my body has only just got itself sorted out.)

I'm often online in pm or on& off on Sun & mon, so pm if u ever need somone to chat to.

L-C · Jun 27th, 2009, 13:11 PM

Thanks Caroline might just take you up on that, it's such a minefield and lonely not able to tell family xx

Caroline · Jun 27th, 2009, 16:10 PM

No problem L C its one of the worst experiences in the world to go through & you need all the support you can get. I can give you my msn if u want, just let me know

xtiineee · Jul 2nd, 2009, 17:10 PM

I am very sorry for your loss. I, too am going through pretty much the same thing. On monday they scanned me and found that the little one isn't moving nor does he have a heartbeat. I am 9 weeks now and I have another scan tomorrow to confirm whether or not I am miscarrying. I haven't been bleeding or cramping but I'm probably almost there since my pg symptoms are going away.

I don't really know what to tell you to do cus I don't know what I'm going to do either but as you already know you are not alone. We're all here for you.

All I know is that you can start trying again after your first or, to be safe, second regular period.

Good luck and take care!

Jun 26th, 2009, 14:24 PM	#11
L-C Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 573	Thank you so much, I was seven weeks and I unfortunately was able to tell exactly what had been passed and so I am relatively confident myself. I just thought that they would be a little more supportive really. I ended up having to tell my Mum that I was pregnant and not pregnant in the same day as she is the only person I kow who has had them. Do any of you know how long you should wait to recover, although I feel lost not being pregnant I know I want to try aagin. xxx

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Jun 26th, 2009, 15:54 PM	#12
mayflower Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 73	It is not necessary to wait to recover. The reason they ask you to wait a month is to help nhs with dating a subsequent pg! If you are ready then your body will be ready. I found that what I thought was an old wives tale was absolutely true - I was quite obviously very much more fertile in the first ovuation after the m/c (ie 2-3weeks later). But if you want a littel time, and want to know that your body is defo back to normal then maybe wait for your next normal period then try again? xx

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Jun 26th, 2009, 16:08 PM	#13
Caroline Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Devon Posts: 4,258	So sorry for your loss hun. Life is pretty cruel. I was given a scan even thought I had passed lots of tissue/clots to make sure I had passed everything & didn't need a D&C. I was however given sod all support/advise from the hospital & I am indebted to the girls on here for there support & advice. You need to avoid having sex until the bleeding has stopped. If you get any really heavy bleeding over the next couple of days then get yourself to A & E & push for a scan. Once bleeding has stopped it is ok to resume sex. Some Dr's say to wait, but is really only for dating purposes, if you fall pg again. We wanted to start ttc straight away, but it hasn't happend for us yet, but I'm really not as upset as I thought I would be, and in many ways I'm glad. I am now feeling ready to get pg again so hoping for a bfp next cycle. (Not holding out too much this cycle as my body has only just got itself sorted out.) I'm often online in pm or on& off on Sun & mon, so pm if u ever need somone to chat to.

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Jun 27th, 2009, 13:11 PM	#14
L-C Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 573	Thanks Caroline might just take you up on that, it's such a minefield and lonely not able to tell family xx

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Jun 27th, 2009, 16:10 PM	#15
Caroline Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Devon Posts: 4,258	No problem L C its one of the worst experiences in the world to go through & you need all the support you can get. I can give you my msn if u want, just let me know

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Jul 2nd, 2009, 17:10 PM	#16
xtiineee Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 9	I am very sorry for your loss. I, too am going through pretty much the same thing. On monday they scanned me and found that the little one isn't moving nor does he have a heartbeat. I am 9 weeks now and I have another scan tomorrow to confirm whether or not I am miscarrying. I haven't been bleeding or cramping but I'm probably almost there since my pg symptoms are going away. I don't really know what to tell you to do cus I don't know what I'm going to do either but as you already know you are not alone. We're all here for you. All I know is that you can start trying again after your first or, to be safe, second regular period. Good luck and take care!

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