Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

Originally Posted by littlehush

Hey girls...thought i would just let you all know..i got a bfp today! hope you dont mind for letting you know, if so i will delete post!
Im just praying that this is a very sticky beany xxx

Congrats! Sending you sticky bean dust!

Originally Posted by littlehush

Hey girls...thought i would just let you all know..i got a bfp today! hope you dont mind for letting you know, if so i will delete post!
Im just praying that this is a very sticky beany xxx

of course we dont mind hunni congratulations you'll have to keep us updated on how it goes hunni wishing you all the luck in the world for a trouble free pregnany and a healthy baby.

to everyone else sorry i've not been around in this thread lately just not really had much to say since i'm still waiting for my consultant appointment.

rach i'm glad you got a second opinion and that you have cancelled your op for now. the specialist sounded really positive that you will be able to carry a baby to term.

superp- i'm so sorry you didnt get answers as to why you lost your little girl but at least you know she was perfect in everyway (not that she would of been less perfect if there were something wrong but i'm sure you know what i mean). how are you feeling. do you think you will want to try again if the doctors cant find any reason as to why?

t-bex- so sorry for your losses i think both of those are usually tested for when you have recurrent misscarriages though i'm not 100% as i am yet to be tested for anything bloody hate all this waiting.

tracie- i remember you from popping on sept-embryos thread i never knew of your losses i am so sorry. i really hope the pgd goes well for you sweetheart do you have any idea when you will be having it?

its so sad to see how many of us have been through recurrent misscarriages it breaks my heart!

to everyone x

my referal went in last week there expecting it so hopefully by december.. yeah i heard about you and your little jessica from marg babe im sooooo sorry

FIRSTLY!!!! Congrats littlehush on your BFP!! Sending you tons of sticky dust and I wish you all the best.
Beckybump- Thanks for the inspiration and for stopping in to share it. And I completely agree, docs give you a pills sometimes to stop you from worrying and get you moving forward. LOL Congrats on the baby boy!
Babytots- Hopefully, you'll get that letter in the mail very soon. The waiting is the worst. And yes, I think I am going to try again. But I'm going to do a few things first...
I'm going to have a second opinion and make sure that everythings been checked, and that asprin and progesterone are in fact necessary. The progesterone made me gain weight approximately 15lbs in my short 9wk pg. So I'm hoping I really don't need it. Maybe switch obgyn's. We'll see. Loose about 25lbs that has been accumulating for a few months, and get healthy again. LOL Try some alternative medicine more than likely accupucture and herbs. Research in the works... to be cont'd. Basicly, going to build some strength over the next few months and see what happens.
Its funny girls, today I was reminded about God's plans, and it has given me new hope for my future. I know that if it's in my heart to become a 'birth' mother than God will deliver that dream. In his time, when it is right, I cannot give up now and I know I'll be blessed. So I've got to concentrate on being open to it, and being ready for it. For now, I'm going to enjoy on the things I do have, like my 3 boys, all adopted and all a huge blessing in my life. My lovely husband, who reminded me not to obsess. LOL
Basicly, making a plan and trying to getting positive again. I've got to believe that its out there for all of us.
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fingers crossed for you tracie i really hope december comes round quickly for you. thanks for the so sad we have to meet again in these circumstances

superp- i hope the second opinion helps. i too am going to try and do things before ttc again. once we get jessicas results back i'm going on a health kick cutting out all the junk,do exercises etc i want to make sure i am healthy as possible so i give my next baby the best chance of making it. i want to hopefully be trying again by end of august maybe sooner. dont think i could get through september and jessicas due date without anything positive to focus on.

fingers crossed that one day we all get our much wanted healthy babies. x

well hunny iv had my fair share of upset so you ever need anyone to talk 2 im always around PM whenever you want

xxx

Littlehush - really hope this one works out for you... got everything crossed!

Superp123/Rach - I think getting a 2nd opinion is obviously a great idea. There is nothing wrong in finding out if you get same results just for piece of mind. As far as I'm concerned, if it keeps happening then there must be something wrong!? Don't you think?

Babytots - Thinking of you... it must be so hard for you still. Hope you gain strength as the months go on before you start trying again.

Tracie - Welcome to the thread. You are right we just need to remain positive... there isn't anything else we've got to cling on to. Any idea when treatment will start?

T-Bex - good luck with your pregnancy and hope this sticks for you. I posted a big list of all the things I was tested for. Not sure if Lupus is on there but defo chromosomal defects (although there isn't anything they can do about that)

As for me I had a bfn last week and felt really disappointed. I'm ok now but just felt so gutted that it didn't happen. It is ridiculous really as 1st time tried since ERPC in January. I think I'd worked myself up about worrying about having another mc I just took it for granted I would get BFP. Always next month... just getting bored/frustrated/ stressed/ with the whole thing - if you get what I mean??

HOpe everyone feeling ok at the mo?

Hey ladies!
T-Bex: I have had similar testing done, I think its the next thing they do after 3 m/c's.

Superp123: thats funny, but i'm glad 2 know i'm not the only one having these feelings. on whats still no explanation for the m/c's. Have they done the exploratory stuff, I can't remember the name now but with the dye's and basically checking the structure and flow of the reproductive system? Maybe they need to go further than bloods. I'm off to get into that starting next week with a specialist and i'll definitly keep you (and everyone) posted on that. I know what it is to want to find that answer, and the lack of relief that comes with everything being "normal"!
And P.S.: I gained weight taking the progesterone 2! but I also attributed it to a lack of exercise because I was afraid to m/c and I do like to eat and PPS: I'm also getting into some of the natural stuff, tried accupressure this week & reflexology, but more for just stress relief and balancing the body, I want to try to go 1x a month, it was more than fantastic. This week I plan to get back into the gym and getting into a fruit, lots of fluids & maybe mediation fast for a few days, I think I need to get back to that balance especially after that shot....for ex: i've been breaking out, and that never happens...it may do nothing for ttc, but atleast i'll feel good all around!

Tracie87- Hey and thanks for posting and also for being so encouraging. Hugs to you for waht you've ahd to endure already. I do hope this next step is it for you. I imagine it's an expensive procedure?

Beckybumpbaby: I'm happy you got your babies in between the madness and I do understand the hesitation to continue. It seems doctors just don't know sometimes and will tell you anything but that. Can you explain the issue with carrying boys? I've heard ppl say that before but I don't understand why it can be harder than carrying girls?...even though it still worked out for you....there really just is some mystery to ttc that we really may never understand, and I realize not knowing is hard for us...that coupled with dealing with repeat losses.

Which brings me to Widger: It does suck to have to keep trying and dealing over and over, even when it seems easier the emotions are still easily stirred up. I do hope next cycle brings you greater opportunities .

Littlehush: Congrats and I do think you should leave the post. I'm happy for you and I hope it sticks for good!

Babytots: It is crazy to see how this group is growing, but i'm glad we've found each other and like you said healthy babies to us all

thanks tracie and same goes if you ever need to chat to someone.

widger sorry to hear you got a bfn i know how hard it is ttc and wanting that bfp and the frustration when you dont get it. its just a constant reminder of what you have lost isnt it.

hope everyones well. x

its about £10-12K ago but im hoping the NHS will cover my ass of im screwed.. lol