why is my body playing tricks on me

babytots · Apr 20th, 2009, 08:50 AM

i keep getting flutters in my stomach just like how jessica moved and everytime it happens it upsets me further. why is my body doing this to me!

they feel so real and makes me think what if they got it wrong.

but after 2 scans both confirming no heartbeat i know they havent got it wrong. i knew something was wrong a couple of weeks ago when her movement slowed right down but never did i think this would happen and never did i think my body could be as cruel as to make me think my baby girl is kicking when shes not. i guess all the movements in the past week or so have just been a cruel trick. x

jo_79 · Apr 20th, 2009, 09:02 AM

Im so sorry for your loss.

I dont think i can help but i had the same thing when i found out my baby had died @ 29 weeks. I was positive they had got it wrong at the hospital - they too found no hb. Im not sure what the feeling is though. Its very cruel of our bodies to mislead us like that.

Massive

to you x

Snowball · Apr 20th, 2009, 09:12 AM

The same thing happened to me when Beau was found to have no hb. 2 people had checked so I knew they couldn't be wrong. I'm still thinking of you and little Jessica loads

DiddyDons · Apr 20th, 2009, 09:13 AM

I am so sorry sweetie

Its not fair at all!

Donna xxx

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Aidedhoney · Apr 20th, 2009, 11:45 AM

Im so sorry, i think you go into denial, when i lost my twins at 16wks part of me thought that they just might be born alive, crazy really but they were my babies and i didnt want reality to kick in. I didnt want to face it.

So sorry for your loss xxxxx

LeaArr · Apr 20th, 2009, 11:50 AM

I'm sorry your body is being cruel to you. I have the same flutterings and I keep thinking to myself, what if it all didn't really happen? It's so hard to heal when our bodies do this.

babytots · Apr 20th, 2009, 12:30 PM

thanks everyone glad its not just me experiencing this i thought i was going crazy.

i guess part of me is still in denial i know shes gone but part of me thinks but she cant be. x

Widger · Apr 20th, 2009, 13:51 PM

I'm really sorry you are going through this. It is so upsetting even without your body playing tricks on you xx

jacky24 · Apr 21st, 2009, 06:36 AM

It is totally normal... even after CJ was born via c-section... I Could some days still feel fluttering and movement even an abrubt kick... In my case it was my womb contracting back... But there is nothing wrong with you having those feelings... We all in the end wish it is all just one horrible dream....

Lots of

v2007 · Apr 21st, 2009, 12:41 PM

I also had this when Taylor died, i didnt know she had died, i was having BH which were making her move from side to side.

Even when i delivered her, i honestly thought they had it wrong.

V xxx

Apr 20th, 2009, 08:50 AM	#1
babytots Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: hull Posts: 3,874	why is my body playing tricks on me i keep getting flutters in my stomach just like how jessica moved and everytime it happens it upsets me further. why is my body doing this to me! they feel so real and makes me think what if they got it wrong. but after 2 scans both confirming no heartbeat i know they havent got it wrong. i knew something was wrong a couple of weeks ago when her movement slowed right down but never did i think this would happen and never did i think my body could be as cruel as to make me think my baby girl is kicking when shes not. i guess all the movements in the past week or so have just been a cruel trick. x

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Apr 20th, 2009, 09:02 AM	#2
jo_79 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Somerset, UK Posts: 1,121	Im so sorry for your loss. I dont think i can help but i had the same thing when i found out my baby had died @ 29 weeks. I was positive they had got it wrong at the hospital - they too found no hb. Im not sure what the feeling is though. Its very cruel of our bodies to mislead us like that. Massive to you x

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Apr 20th, 2009, 09:12 AM	#3
Snowball Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 10,214	The same thing happened to me when Beau was found to have no hb. 2 people had checked so I knew they couldn't be wrong. I'm still thinking of you and little Jessica loads

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Apr 20th, 2009, 09:13 AM	#4
DiddyDons Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Sunderland, UK	I am so sorry sweetie Its not fair at all! Donna xxx Proud Mummy To Sophie, An Angel Born Perfectly Into Heaven! 31.01.08 Sophie's Website Fell Pregnant With Sophie After Not Having AF for TWO Years..She's My Perfect Miracle! Diagnosed With PCOS Dec 08. Just Started Metformin-Hoping For Regular AF's

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Apr 20th, 2009, 11:45 AM	#5
Aidedhoney Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,444	Im so sorry, i think you go into denial, when i lost my twins at 16wks part of me thought that they just might be born alive, crazy really but they were my babies and i didnt want reality to kick in. I didnt want to face it. So sorry for your loss xxxxx

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Apr 20th, 2009, 11:50 AM	#6
LeaArr Other BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada Posts: 8,669	I'm sorry your body is being cruel to you. I have the same flutterings and I keep thinking to myself, what if it all didn't really happen? It's so hard to heal when our bodies do this.

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Apr 20th, 2009, 12:30 PM	#7
babytots Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: hull Posts: 3,874	thanks everyone glad its not just me experiencing this i thought i was going crazy. i guess part of me is still in denial i know shes gone but part of me thinks but she cant be. x

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Apr 20th, 2009, 13:51 PM	#8
Widger Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: England Posts: 3,476	I'm really sorry you are going through this. It is so upsetting even without your body playing tricks on you xx

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Apr 21st, 2009, 06:36 AM	#9
jacky24 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: South Africa- Krugersdorp Posts: 3,807	It is totally normal... even after CJ was born via c-section... I Could some days still feel fluttering and movement even an abrubt kick... In my case it was my womb contracting back... But there is nothing wrong with you having those feelings... We all in the end wish it is all just one horrible dream.... Lots of

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Apr 21st, 2009, 12:41 PM	#10
v2007 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Trendy Morecambe Posts: 24,528	I also had this when Taylor died, i didnt know she had died, i was having BH which were making her move from side to side. Even when i delivered her, i honestly thought they had it wrong. V xxx

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