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Old Feb 4th, 2010, 06:01 AM   #21
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I actually would where I live as it's quite quiet, but they would have to stay where I could see them. In your circumstances I wouldn't for another year or two. I personally think that we are so scared of what might happen to our kids that we stifle them. The risk of child murder (by strangers) hasn't changed since the 70s - it's 11 a year - but our fear has increased massively. The vast majority of kids that are abused etc. are abused by someone they know and trust (over 90%), not by strangers.


 
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Old Feb 4th, 2010, 18:05 PM   #22
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No way!!


 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:36 PM   #23
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I wont let my 5 yr old play out the front. Hes to young. He plays in the back garden x


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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 20:43 PM   #24
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i let my daughter play on our street with her friends but i sit on the door step and keep a watch on them, me and her friends mum who lives across the road take it in turns. just cannot trust anyone anymore to let her out


 
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Old Feb 10th, 2010, 02:16 AM   #25
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I think it depends on where you live and your child tbh.
We allowed our eldest daughter to go out to play with her friends on the street at the age of 5 but we stayed on the front for the first couple of months to now watching her through the window (she's 6 and a half now) she also has has good road sense which helps
And yet on the other hand our second daughter is 5 in July and we won't be allowing her to go out to play on the front for a few years yet! Mainly because she was born blind and she has no road sense


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Old Feb 10th, 2010, 11:39 AM   #26
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i let my kids in the street at 7 and 5, but that was with lots of other kids n me watchin out window they only used to go up n down pavements on their scooters but i still did worry but i saw how much they enjoyed it so i let them aslong as they stayed together n didnt go right to the end of our road x


 
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Old Feb 25th, 2010, 17:27 PM   #27
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how times have changed!

when i was a kid i used to be out with my friends all day. i'd only come home to eat or when it got dark! my mum was really chilled and she did lots of stuff with us too. i lived on a council estate so there were always people around. everyone knew everyone and kept an eye on each others kids.

as a result i was extremely streetwise, fit and healthy from all the running around and blackberry picking and had the best childhood ever! and i wasn't feral and never got in trouble or did anything really naughty. my mum taught me about repsect and without the childhood i've had i don't think i'd be the very confident, streetwise and practical person i am today.

i think it's so sad that children nowadays can't have the same freedom that i had.

i've let my son out the front from the age of 4. he has strict instructions on boundaries and i keep an eye on him through the window. there are always lots of kids out the front so he is never on his own. we are also very lucky that we don't have any roads to worry about and have a park and green literally right on our doorstep.

i think it depends on each families situation. if i was in your position i probably wouldn't let your LO out for a little while yet as you can't see where they are playing.


 
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Old Feb 25th, 2010, 17:31 PM   #28
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In your circumstances, no.
My 4 year old plays in our street with her elder siblings where I can see her and we live in a gated community so it's fairly safe.


 
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Old Mar 2nd, 2010, 11:37 AM   #29
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Not a chance in your situation!

My daughter is 4.5 and very mature for her age but wouldn't even contemplate it. She has been out with her older cousins (all around aged 10 and upwards) but wouldn't consider letting her out on the front if i couldn't see her.

I agree we stifle kids too much nowadays, I was the same as a previous poster, out playing all day with my friends without a care in the world but I think 5 is too young particularly when you cant see them.


 
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Old Mar 3rd, 2010, 05:51 AM   #30
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Probably not, ok if the two are in the garden together. although we live in a fairly decent area in a quiet cul-de-sac.


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