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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 14:37 PM  
missy123
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what to do??kids expolrng


ok ill keep this brief but my 5 year old(boy) and my my 4 year old neice,were caught with the trousers and pants off in my mothers house last weekend by my sister who went mad,her daughter told her they were playing "sucking bums" she rang me shouting her head off and said i should have my child looked at as his behaviour is "not normal" my son said it was her idea and she blaming him,either way there were no adults around she even took her child straight to hospital like she had been sexually abused or something,the kids didnt see anything wrong in it they were just playing now my sister wont talk to me and thinks we should see a shrink im gutted and dont know what to do,my son said he didnt touch her with his lips but addmitted they had their pants off
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 14:46 PM  
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Oh boy! This is such a normal thing at this age. Honestly, exploration occurs at this age and to even bring her child to the hospital.

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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 14:49 PM  
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I cant believe your sister is behaving in such a way I dont really know what to suggest hun but I am sure your boy was just exploring. How was he to know? I hope your ok x
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 15:00 PM  
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You poor thing. Your sister is really over reacting I don't have any advice but I hope it works out
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 15:10 PM  
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Oh dear,its completely normal at this age to want to explore what they havent got.Your sister is over-reacting slightly,the children both did it and they arent that different in age so you cant blame one more than the other.Hopefully she will realise she is being silly.If you both explain to the children why you cant do things like that,I think that should be the end of it.
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 15:16 PM  
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thanks everyone she wont see sense i offered to talk to her but she shut me off and doesnt want to know,i have spoken to my child and he didnt know he was doin wrong untill she shouted at him,the whole family are upset my mother especially after all this i dont think i want her in my life
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 17:33 PM  
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Thats awful hunnie she is overeacting
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 19:51 PM  
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Yes I agree. She is over reacting. Hope things work out, must be hard.
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Old Dec 15th, 2009, 20:21 PM  
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Oh they're both only babys... she's def over reacting. They would have just thought they were playing a game, they don't understand or have any remotely sexual feelings so young!
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Old Dec 16th, 2009, 22:16 PM  
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she's certainly over reacting, hope everything works out
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