since i can remember up until about 8-9 me and my nephew ''explored''. i felt wrong but didnt think anything was rong with it.

now i think back i feel physically sick and although we dont mention it and i love my nephew to bits like hes my brother aswere such close in age i dont trust him around my daughter. he asked to change her nappy and i declined chatting rubbish. i had this fear come over me like when i was little and put a sop to our exploring.

i put a stop to it when he tried to penetrate me because he seen it in a movie his olde cousin showed him, and it hrt like mad i started crying and we havent mentioned it since.

till this day my family dont no, this is the first time im even mentionin it and im doing it online(daft cow). i think i need counselling

any way my point is you have to explain to both of them it was wrong as she as much as him are to ''blame''. they dont think there doing anything wrong because in there eyes they arent doing anything wrong and nothing is going to change that until they get olde4r and realise it.

im 19 now and stil feel dirty and cant have certain sexual acts preformed on me because of it, and i would hate for anyone to have the same mental though of me on certain things because of what i was exposed to at such a young age.

I also think they were overreacting. They are kids after all.

Definately over reacting. They are only little and just curious xx

i really think she needs to get a grip - its not really any different to a couple of 4/5 year olds taking off their socks and checking out theri toes

Maybe just maybe your sister has a story to tell.....and that is why she is way overprotective regarding these issues?EG something happened to her when she was younger?i really hope not (we wouldn't wish it on anybody) but surely there must be a reason she went O.T.T.

omg thats awful hun

thank you i no. and i would HATE for anyone to feel how i felt growing up, like an outsider yahno?

its disheartening because no matter what thats going to affect me forever.

op: until they BOTH understand its wrong they will keep doing it, i might be rong but from experience ...

that has been suggested i dont know i hope she gets help xx

im so sorry if this thread has brought back memories thinking of you xxxxxxx

I cant believe how badly shes reacting. I know most mothers or anyone really would walk into the room and be very shocked and probably shout "WHAT ARE U DOING?"
But to take her to the hopsital, and to completely block your son and yourself out is madness!
Hope u manage to sort it out xxx