Requests u have had from your teenager that answer is noway

Jkelmum · Nov 12th, 2009, 05:49 AM

my 14 yr old boy is going to a party for a girl and says bcoc i dont drive he is allowed to sleep over

no way i havent even met this girl or parents so dont know there views he got annoyed and said he always misses out cos i dont drive ..solution a taxi home at 10:30 which is says is tight

i thought 10:30 was a bit late tbh

so what as your teen asked to do/for that no way would u say yes ?

Alexandra91 · Nov 12th, 2009, 05:52 AM

Hi im 18 so i understand why he'd think that was unfair because not that long ago i was the same! but to be honest half 10 is reasonable and he probabaly knows this but is trying to push his luck! Or maybe if you speak to her parents and see if there is a few of them sleeping over including other boys?

Jkelmum · Nov 12th, 2009, 05:55 AM

he says there are overs but still even if i speak to parents i dont kno them and i dont know what they would be allowin to happen so would rather he just comes home x

Alexandra91 · Nov 12th, 2009, 06:02 AM

I would say he will of forgotton about it a couple of days later any way if he is a bit sulky about it! and like i said half 10 is deffo reasonable

x

Georgie90 · Nov 12th, 2009, 06:05 AM

hi...im 19 so understand what it feels like being 14

I remember asking to sleep over at a boys house after a party..with everyone else of course, and my mum saying no way...so i then told her i was staying round my friends and did it anyway

Moving on, my sister is 15 and is allowed out to parties (as long as they are in a house) till 12pm as longa s someones picking her up or she has a ride home..x

Jkelmum · Nov 12th, 2009, 06:28 AM

See party starts at 7 and doesnt have a finishing time so thought 10:30 was a good time the only reason i am allowin a taxi it bcos its my boss ...on a weekend he as to be in by 8:30 normally so two hrs extra for a party is fare i think

Georgie90 · Nov 12th, 2009, 06:42 AM

thats fine then hun, your the mum! what you think is right!
my sister is allowed to house parties till 12.

can you not talk to the mums of others that are going and find out what time there kids have to be home? or could you compromise at 11?

x

Jkelmum · Nov 12th, 2009, 07:26 AM

No that is a comprimise i dont know the parents so dont trust them bcos we are in a nice area and the area he is going to 8 miles away is full of druggys and what not ...I know one girl gets her mum to lie for her friends what if this mum is like that ? ...It isnt that long since i was 14 and pregnant with him in know all the tricks lol

Georgie90 · Nov 12th, 2009, 07:31 AM

ooo you was 14 when you got preg. i see.
is there no way you can talk to the parents of the party...i think 10.30 is fine, if thats when you want him in thats fair enough but i also know if we tried to get my sister iin then she would be horrified

xxx

Jkelmum · Nov 12th, 2009, 07:47 AM

imo 14 yr old boys and 15 yr old girls theres a lot of difference in maturity and he was only 14 a week ago

Nov 12th, 2009, 05:49 AM	#1
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	Requests u have had from your teenager that answer is noway my 14 yr old boy is going to a party for a girl and says bcoc i dont drive he is allowed to sleep over no way i havent even met this girl or parents so dont know there views he got annoyed and said he always misses out cos i dont drive ..solution a taxi home at 10:30 which is says is tight i thought 10:30 was a bit late tbh so what as your teen asked to do/for that no way would u say yes ?

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Nov 12th, 2009, 05:52 AM	#2
Alexandra91 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 270	Hi im 18 so i understand why he'd think that was unfair because not that long ago i was the same! but to be honest half 10 is reasonable and he probabaly knows this but is trying to push his luck! Or maybe if you speak to her parents and see if there is a few of them sleeping over including other boys?

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Nov 12th, 2009, 05:55 AM	#3
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	he says there are overs but still even if i speak to parents i dont kno them and i dont know what they would be allowin to happen so would rather he just comes home x

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Nov 12th, 2009, 06:02 AM	#4
Alexandra91 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 270	I would say he will of forgotton about it a couple of days later any way if he is a bit sulky about it! and like i said half 10 is deffo reasonable x

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Nov 12th, 2009, 06:05 AM	#5
Georgie90 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Rainham, Essex Posts: 9,129	hi...im 19 so understand what it feels like being 14 I remember asking to sleep over at a boys house after a party..with everyone else of course, and my mum saying no way...so i then told her i was staying round my friends and did it anyway Moving on, my sister is 15 and is allowed out to parties (as long as they are in a house) till 12pm as longa s someones picking her up or she has a ride home..x

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Nov 12th, 2009, 06:28 AM	#6
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	See party starts at 7 and doesnt have a finishing time so thought 10:30 was a good time the only reason i am allowin a taxi it bcos its my boss ...on a weekend he as to be in by 8:30 normally so two hrs extra for a party is fare i think

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Nov 12th, 2009, 06:42 AM	#7
Georgie90 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Rainham, Essex Posts: 9,129	thats fine then hun, your the mum! what you think is right! my sister is allowed to house parties till 12. can you not talk to the mums of others that are going and find out what time there kids have to be home? or could you compromise at 11? x

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Nov 12th, 2009, 07:26 AM	#8
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	No that is a comprimise i dont know the parents so dont trust them bcos we are in a nice area and the area he is going to 8 miles away is full of druggys and what not ...I know one girl gets her mum to lie for her friends what if this mum is like that ? ...It isnt that long since i was 14 and pregnant with him in know all the tricks lol

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Nov 12th, 2009, 07:31 AM	#9
Georgie90 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Rainham, Essex Posts: 9,129	ooo you was 14 when you got preg. i see. is there no way you can talk to the parents of the party...i think 10.30 is fine, if thats when you want him in thats fair enough but i also know if we tried to get my sister iin then she would be horrified xxx

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Nov 12th, 2009, 07:47 AM	#10
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	imo 14 yr old boys and 15 yr old girls theres a lot of difference in maturity and he was only 14 a week ago

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