So far since Em went back to school, (2weeks 1 day to be exact!)

She has had a warning card on the 2nd day, this was because she carried on with work when told to stop, what failed to happen here was info that she has slight hearing problems weren't passsed on!!! FFS

A "friend" of hers told Emilys best friend that Emily had been bullying her and that letters where being written and that her headmisstress was getting involved and she could be excluded!!!! this was last wednesday the "friend" had called for her on the tuesday night!!!!!
Of course Em was gutted about this and i went to see the Head and she said nothing was going on and Emily was not a bully in anyway shape or form, the thing was this "friend" wasn't as bubbly as she used to be or something and parents were concerned( fair enough i would be too) but i think that is a twisted horrible thing to do and i am still fuming over that!!

Today Em comes out of school takes one look at me and nearly bursts into tears(not like her at all) Her recorder teacher had shouted at her in music class in front of everyone because she didn't go to Recorder last week, the reason she didn't go is beacuse i informed school that she no longer wanted to do it, I frigging informed them!!! The first day back i told them this so that message hadn't been passed on!!!!
That must have been so humiliating for Emily, she told the teacher that i had said she didn't want to do it anymore but apparently that isn't good enough i should have spoken to the teacher, so i go in tonight to explain but guess what i couldn't cos she was in recorder class!!!!! So i just said can you make sure she knows i have been in, as i would never just stop activites without saying anything, thats not fair on anyone. what more can i do?

I don't wanna go off at one with school as we have had a good realationship up until this point, I honestly don't think i can do or say more than i already have.

Bless her she started crying on doorstep when we got in so i told her to get in some chill out clothes and she could have Choccie

I'm in here out of her way because i am so close to tears myself writing this

Anyhoo if you read all that essay thank you very much

I feel a bit better just getting it off my chest and on bright side i have a record if i need it, watch this space it may well be added to but fingers crossed it won't be

aww hun what a nightmare!

thats not on atall, poor Emily has been made to feel upset over it, does her music teacher have no heart, and she's a bloody hypacrite. I can see why your upset and angry, hope its the last of it xxx

Bloody gits!!

Give emmy a hug from me and tell her to keep her chin up ...

Think i can guess who that "friend" is??

xxx

Cheers hunnies

No Imi total diff friend to the one you thinking of she might not share sweets but even she not that nasty LOL

I'm still dead cross, you know when you feel all shaky? i think its 'cos for once she really didn't deserve a telling off, i gotta feeling when Ant comes in i'm just gonna boo at him

Gonna have a fag on doorstep and wait for him LOL

Aw no jo that isnt on at all!

I would go see the head and complain about the lack of communication!
And as for the music teacher, class or not i would have demanded 5 mins to speak to her.

Oh poor girl

As for that teacher I'd have interupted her for humiliating my lil girl and as for 'not good enough' have the teacher tell me that as it was me she referred to. Teachers are bullies too if let off with it.

omg thats terrible, no wonder your angry and she is upset.

big for you and em

Well i've decided to write a letter to this teacher as she is only in on a wednesday and chances are i won't catch her

Em later told me that she had said "i want to see you in class tonight"!!! As if!!
i did what i should have done and informed secatary not mine or Ems fault the message wasn't passed on is it?
I think what upset and surprised me as well is this teacher is normaly so calm and chilled out, bet she had a bad day wth Ems class 'cos they are some right little buggers in it but it still doesn't excuse speaking to her like that does it?
I'll let ya know how i get on
Thanks for reading it all and replying at least it shows i'm not a mental mum

*Hugs*