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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:04 AM
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You can rant on here and get things off of your chest as much as you want........we are not judgemental and will be here to listen and if any one can give advice they will! You are not talking to us face to face so hopefully you will find that might make things eaier for you, but be sure that you really will get help & support from the girls here, so dont be afraid to post or to have a good rant or to have a lark around............Just be yourself and do whatever you need to  xx |
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:05 AM
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#12 | | Guest | Aww hunny extra cuddles for you.
I was in a relationship like that, we moved to the other side of the UK and he cut me off from my friends and family.
I've spent the last 5 years building my confidence back up and gradually building up a close circle of friends.
If you want to chat we're all here for you, sounds like you could do with being surrounded by people who want to read and support you, thats what we do best
Lots of love and hugs to you hunni
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:11 AM
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Hi there Teareye!
Welcome to the site, I am sur eyou will find it useful, and helpful.
Most of the girls are a bit loopy but bare with them, you kinda get used to it.
I can assure you there are men out there that will treat you right, and never even think of hurting you in any way.
I know it's easy for me to say, (And I do jest about it occassionally on here ) but I would never for one second hit a woman.
Anyway that said, Well done for getting the courage to share with us all, and Good luck in finding Mr Right and having the family you deserve.   | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:18 AM
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| Living in deepest, darkest yorkshire with a cat who is determined to join in the chat  the cat is my bodyguard watches over me as i too check the cooker is turned off but not just the ring i was using all have to be checked 3 times each as well as doing circuits of the house three times in order to make that windows and doors are locked . Checking once is good, checking twice is inportant checking a third time ensures that everything is safe.
Feel like if i'd made sure that i did things right for ex then i wouldn't of upset himand i would still have my babyboy. | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:22 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I'm the same hun - My OH thinks I'm crazy - I won't turn things off I will unplug them too. That stuck with me but not so bad anymore.
Do you have family around you at all? |
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:42 AM
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| Teareye,
It's not about doing everything to keep your OH happy to stop him hurting you.
It would be any excuse, if you were too perfect and he needed an excuse then maybe that would be it!!!
Be yourself, feel good about yourself, get your self confidence up, and then you'll attract the right kind of man.
Maybe a Martial Art would help???
It would make you feel more secure, and help your self-confidence no end.
Oh and Wobble Meister, you unplug not "plug them out!" 
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:44 AM
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Sep 17th, 2006, 01:56 AM
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#18 | | Guest | Awww hun!!
I was living in Yorkshire with my evil ex...
I have to do certain things... checking doors are locked and stuff, its phased out more now as time has gone on.
Hope we can all be here for you when you need a rant hun
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Nov 1st, 2006, 19:32 PM
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Hi i have just as of yesterday left my partner due to DV and we have a young baby together marley is 9 months old. I would love to chat to another person who has had DV in their life. I am new to this board as of today
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Nov 1st, 2006, 20:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Mum2Boys Hi i have just as of yesterday left my partner due to DV and we have a young baby together marley is 9 months old. I would love to chat to another person who has had DV in their life. I am new to this board as of today
Steph | Welcome to the forum hun 
Well done in having the strength to break free babe, you have done you and Marley proud!!!
I look forward to getting to know you! x |
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